Dont BLASPHIEM!!!!!!!!!

OK, to all of the guys above, let's get real.

For example, If you say that the most attractive thing is intelligence, then does that mean if you are a guy and you meet a man who is just super intelligent, are you going to fall for him?

If not, then doesn't there have to be something up there about the female body.
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My above answer really should be #2 as I came to this #1 answer last night at the bar.

What attracts me the most - one of the opposites that I am. I love the softness of a girl's body. That is just something that is just incredible to the touch.

Not even the unbelievable feeling areas like the .............. Just a woman's back or even holding her hand, to me, it is electric to the touch.

Seems that very few are being honest so far.

Yes, Michael, everyone else added Algren to ignore, so you do the "smart thing" and keep acknowledging him. Good job.

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I said i think women are too sex and the city orientated these days.
Ripper strongly disagreed and told me s/he hates me
Maverikk stood up for femininty and slammed me as some sort of she-hater
I cried repeatedly.
Dolce said something intelligent about stuff
Algren said he likes "retarded" chicks
Everyone Else flipped out

Thats the summary.

You say I have a superiority complex, when you suggest your important enough to me hate. Niether you nor your opinion matter that much. .

i agree on the deletions of Algrens posts - he knew he would push peoples buttons by using that kind of stuff and he did.

So youve told me repeatedly throughout this thread. Infact in every post youve made youve made sure no one could possibly constrew anything your saying as even mildly reasonable and making sure the whole of the internet knows how much my opinon dosen't matter. I suppose yours does of course though.

Maverikk, under advice im going to not pursue an argument with you or Ripper any further because its clearly pointless.
Some people don't like to let arguments slide i guess.

But the fact that both of you are more stubborn than me means this conversation wont end unless i nip it in the bud right now.

Gee, I take a nap and there is like pages of offensive spam.

anyone who responded to posts, please pm me if you would like your posts removed as well.
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Good looks? An ability to work with whatever the situation of the first meeting is with finesse and humor? Not to be the shallow one here, but we're talking initial attraction right? Not three months into the relationship. In that case I agree with everything already mentioned, and nothing kills more than being bored by the words and thoughts that escape the person you would like to talk to everyday.

BUt for first meeting, its pretty tough to establish their knowledge of topics. I find the easiest way to tell if they are "smart' when first meeting is if they manage to make casual chit-chat interesting. I've been to places where the way to start talking is "About a song that just came on the juke box, or what the drink or the house is, or what the homework assignment was." In those cases someone truly attractive actually engages you on that in one way or another. Usually through cynicism with a touch of sincerity, but hey, it shows a good mind. I genuinely appreciate someone who can take the flimsy piece of straw I provide them with an excuse to talk and manage to spin it into gold.

Doesn't hurt if they have an aura that you can get into. I can't say I'm attracted to this color hair or this type of shoe, but when I see someone and can just sense how they carry themselves and their personality, that great. Its often misleading when they turn out to be idiots down the road, but for a first feel, there's nothing like the way they are standing. Eh, having trouble explaining myself.

I agree.

Having a great conversation with a fat slob with a moustache who smokes and farts and drools won't do it for me.

I mean, looks are not the most important thing, but they are a thing. Looks without intelligence does not turn me on at all; intelligence without looks doesn't do it either. You need a bit of both....

Having a great conversation with a fat slob with a moustache who smokes and farts and drools won't do it for me.

Personally, I disagree with your comments about change.

I have seen / been in lots of relationships and no matter whether you are the same or different - both can work or not work - depending on how much you put into making it work.

Nothing is going to be perfect as everything has ups and downs. So you have to work at it.

Personally, I disagree with your comments about change.

I have seen / been in lots of relationships and no matter whether you are the same or different - both can work or not work - depending on how much you put into making it work.

Nothing is going to be perfect as everything has ups and downs. So you have to work at it.