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Corpse
Don't Dream It, Be It
Joined: Wed Aug 02, 2006 12:45 pm Posts: 37162 Location: The Graveyard
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 So, Tell Me Exactly...
...why some of you really dislike/hate me, because it's obvious. Like Box just said in The Site forum.
As far as I know I haven't said anything "bad' about anyone, and I haven't done anything "bad' to anybody. And in the arguements I've been in, I'm always willing to make a comprimise. Like with Gullimont. I know I have a domination, attention seeking personality (though it's not the typical kind), so is that why?
I'd really, really like to know.
_________________Japan Box Office “Gods are great ... but the heart is greater. For it is from our hearts they come, and to our hearts they shall return.” “We were like gods at the dawning of the world, & our joy was so bright we could see nothing else but the other.” “There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man.” “You have to pretend you get an endgame. You have to carry on like you will; otherwise, you can't carry on at all.” "Paper is dead without words / Ink idle without a poem / All the world dead without stories."
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:04 pm |
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I Am Moses!
Speed Racer
Joined: Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:26 am Posts: 172
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 Re: So, Tell Me Exactly...
i think your cute as hell, and i dont hate you! If i hated you, would i have shown you what i showed. 
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:07 pm |
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Rev
Romosexual!
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 3:06 am Posts: 32574 Location: the last free city
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They don't like your style, your posts, your photos...your whole package. You don't have to do or say anything to them for them to hate you.
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:08 pm |
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Maverikk
Award Winning Bastard
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2004 12:03 am Posts: 15310 Location: Slumming at KJ
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 Re: So, Tell Me Exactly...
I like ya! Don't pay any attention to Box. He's just bitter and cranky and needs to let it out. Some people don't need a reason, they just hate because of some sort of compensation mechanism. Others probably hate your confidence. I've experienced similar hateful vibes from various insecure members. You're not hurting anybody, so don't let that nonsense bother you.
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:15 pm |
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Corpse
Don't Dream It, Be It
Joined: Wed Aug 02, 2006 12:45 pm Posts: 37162 Location: The Graveyard
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It doesn't bother me. All I'd like is a reason, straight forward responses. Because I don't think anyone has ever told me any.
_________________Japan Box Office “Gods are great ... but the heart is greater. For it is from our hearts they come, and to our hearts they shall return.” “We were like gods at the dawning of the world, & our joy was so bright we could see nothing else but the other.” “There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man.” “You have to pretend you get an endgame. You have to carry on like you will; otherwise, you can't carry on at all.” "Paper is dead without words / Ink idle without a poem / All the world dead without stories."
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:18 pm |
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Mister Ecks
New Server, Same X
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2004 7:07 pm Posts: 28301 Location: ... siiiigh...
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Well personally, I think that...............I Am Moses! wrote: If i hated you, would i have shown you what i showed. Umm.... oooookay...
I don't have any problems with you Corpse. None at all! We're rainbow-related. Like 2nd cousins, once removed... or something.
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:18 pm |
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trixster
loyalfromlondon
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2004 6:31 pm Posts: 19697 Location: ville-marie
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I don't think anyone hates you - I certainly don't - and Box is just kidding around, but I think a lot of people just find you annoying.
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:20 pm |
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Rev
Romosexual!
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 3:06 am Posts: 32574 Location: the last free city
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Mr. X wrote: Well personally, I think that...............I Am Moses! wrote: If i hated you, would i have shown you what i showed. Umm.... oooookay... 
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:21 pm |
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Corpse
Don't Dream It, Be It
Joined: Wed Aug 02, 2006 12:45 pm Posts: 37162 Location: The Graveyard
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trixster wrote: I don't think anyone hates you - I certainly don't - and Box is just kidding around, but I think a lot of people just find you annoying. Not worried about Box.
That is what I'd like to know. Why am I annoying by those who find me annoying? Why am I disliked by those who dislike me? That stuff. Not "I find you super annoying". No responses like that.
_________________Japan Box Office “Gods are great ... but the heart is greater. For it is from our hearts they come, and to our hearts they shall return.” “We were like gods at the dawning of the world, & our joy was so bright we could see nothing else but the other.” “There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man.” “You have to pretend you get an endgame. You have to carry on like you will; otherwise, you can't carry on at all.” "Paper is dead without words / Ink idle without a poem / All the world dead without stories."
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:27 pm |
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Maverikk
Award Winning Bastard
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2004 12:03 am Posts: 15310 Location: Slumming at KJ
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Corpse wrote: That is what I'd like to know. Why am I annoying by those who find me annoying? Why am I disliked by those who dislike me? That stuff. Not "I find you super annoying". No responses like that.[/b][/color] They're not going to come out and answer you, because it would make them look like petty imbeciles. (unless you actually DID do something to wrong them) The answer is in my post above. It annoys some people to see self confidence displayed. You have it, they know it, it annoys them.
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:29 pm |
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Mister Ecks
New Server, Same X
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2004 7:07 pm Posts: 28301 Location: ... siiiigh...
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Maverikk wrote: Corpse wrote: That is what I'd like to know. Why am I annoying by those who find me annoying? Why am I disliked by those who dislike me? That stuff. Not "I find you super annoying". No responses like that.[/b][/color] They're not going to come out and answer you, because it would make them look like petty imbeciles. (unless you actually DID do something to wrong them) The answer is in my post above. It annoys some people to see self confidence displayed. You have it, they know it, it annoys them. Take your self-confidence and scram-o!
Nah, you're alright! And so is Corpse.
But Moses...
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:35 pm |
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Corpse
Don't Dream It, Be It
Joined: Wed Aug 02, 2006 12:45 pm Posts: 37162 Location: The Graveyard
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Maverikk wrote: Corpse wrote: That is what I'd like to know. Why am I annoying by those who find me annoying? Why am I disliked by those who dislike me? That stuff. Not "I find you super annoying". No responses like that. They're not going to come out and answer you, because it would make them look like petty imbeciles. (unless you actually DID do something to wrong them) The answer is in my post above. It annoys some people to see self confidence displayed. You have it, they know it, it annoys them. If the common answer is indeed my self-confidence, then..well. I don't know, because I've never disliked somebody or found self-confident people that way. I'm always happy they are self-confident. I had to deal with it pretty often in High School with other students (I was a student counselor). So I'd always encourage them to be out in the open, and feel confident about themselves, and scew what everybody else thought of them doing it. So, I find hating someone because of there confidence to be...well, I don't understand it to be honest.
_________________Japan Box Office “Gods are great ... but the heart is greater. For it is from our hearts they come, and to our hearts they shall return.” “We were like gods at the dawning of the world, & our joy was so bright we could see nothing else but the other.” “There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man.” “You have to pretend you get an endgame. You have to carry on like you will; otherwise, you can't carry on at all.” "Paper is dead without words / Ink idle without a poem / All the world dead without stories."
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:37 pm |
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Maverikk
Award Winning Bastard
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2004 12:03 am Posts: 15310 Location: Slumming at KJ
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Corpse wrote: If the common answer is indeed my self-confidence, then..well. I don't know, because I've never disliked somebody or found self-confident people that way. I'm always happy they are self-confident. I had to deal with it pretty often in High School with other students (I was a student counselor). So I'd always encourage them to be out in the open, and feel confident about themselves, and scew what everybody else thought of them doing it. So, I find hating someone because they are confidence to be...well, I don't understand it to be honest. Well, if I may put on my Dr. Phil hat ever so briefly, I'll try to explain. It all goes along with the old saying "misery loves company". Lot's of people are just flat out miserable in life, be it from their frustration in romantic endeavors, or if they are stuck at a dead end job with no prospects of ever "being somebody". Life basically sucks for them. When we see a person who has self confidence, it just screams "I'm happy with my life and myself!!!", and those in misery feel even more miserable, so they do the only thing they can think to do, they try to take that person down, even if it's just in their own mind, so they can feel a little better and build themselves up. You're not doing anything wrong by being true to yourself. I'm also very self confident, and I know all too well how that can hurt feelings, especially on the internet. Changing to pacify sensitive feelings of others isn't the answer, though, so just keep being you, and allow me to giggle when I see it bother somebody's psyche! 
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:48 pm |
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matatonio
Teh Mexican
Joined: Fri Oct 15, 2004 11:56 pm Posts: 26066 Location: In good ol' Mexico
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I dont see a reason why to hate you. You are not annoying like a few here. I like you! 
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:52 pm |
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Mister Ecks
New Server, Same X
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2004 7:07 pm Posts: 28301 Location: ... siiiigh...
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Maverikk wrote: Corpse wrote: If the common answer is indeed my self-confidence, then..well. I don't know, because I've never disliked somebody or found self-confident people that way. I'm always happy they are self-confident. I had to deal with it pretty often in High School with other students (I was a student counselor). So I'd always encourage them to be out in the open, and feel confident about themselves, and scew what everybody else thought of them doing it. So, I find hating someone because they are confidence to be...well, I don't understand it to be honest. Well, if I may put on my Dr. Phil hat ever so briefly, I'll try to explain. It all goes along with the old saying "misery loves company". Lot's of people are just flat out miserable in life, be it from their frustration in romantic endeavors, or if they are stuck at a dead end job with no prospects of ever "being somebody". Life basically sucks for them. When we see a person who has self confidence, it just screams "I'm happy with my life and myself!!!", and those in misery feel even more miserable, so they do the only thing they can think to do, they try to take that person down, even if it's just in their own mind, so they can feel a little better and build themselves up. You're not doing anything wrong by being true to yourself. I'm also very self confident, and I know all too well how that can hurt feelings, especially on the internet. Changing to pacify sensitive feelings of others isn't the answer, though, so just keep being you, and allow me to giggle when I see it bother somebody's psyche!  Why you... 
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jujubee
Forum General
Joined: Wed Feb 08, 2006 11:45 pm Posts: 6447
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I'm probably going to regret posting this, but it has to do with the fact that your posts, at least in the Water Cooler, add nothing to the conversation. You start/inspire threads like Boo Boo Kitty Fuck. Everyone posts stupid stuff. You usually post stupid stuff. Nothing to do with your "self confidence" (if that's what it's called, since it looks to me like you actually have self esteem problems and want constant affirmations by posting the pics you constantly do). That attention-whore aspect of your personality is also terribly annoying. (Though the attention-whore-ism is not exclusive to you in any way.)
No, you aren't evil, and I don't hate you. I just find you annoying.
Again, I'm regretting this post already, but you asked.
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Tue Feb 26, 2008 11:58 pm |
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TonyMontana
Undisputed WoKJ DVD King
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Reasons why I hate Corpse:
#1. She became my mortal enemy when Snrub and I signed on to become the #1 duo at KJ and she was temporarily standing in the way.
#2. She "hired" Mr X to infiltrate and sabotage my competition. I say "hired", because I suspect she paid him in naked pictures of Korrgan's doggy, which I don't know if that counts as a form of currency, so perhaps I should say "bribed him"?
#3. She thinks Nintendo makes good games.
But, cheer up, Corpse... that's only 3 reasons! For most people I can list 5-6 reasons why I hate them.
I can't even add up the number for Squee without taking off my shoes AND pants.
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Wed Feb 27, 2008 12:01 am |
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Corpse
Don't Dream It, Be It
Joined: Wed Aug 02, 2006 12:45 pm Posts: 37162 Location: The Graveyard
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jujubee wrote: I'm probably going to regret posting this, but it has to do with the fact that your posts, at least in the Water Cooler, add nothing to the conversation. You start/inspire threads like Boo Boo Kitty Fuck. Everyone posts stupid stuff. You usually post stupid stuff. Nothing to do with your "self confidence" (if that's what it's called, since it looks to me like you actually have self esteem problems and want constant affirmations by posting the pics you constantly do). That attention-whore aspect of your personality is also terribly annoying. (Though the attention-whore-ism is not exclusive to you in any way.)
No, you aren't evil, and I don't hate you. I just find you annoying.
Again, I'm regretting this post already, but you asked. Don't regret it. Because that's what I wanted to know. No BS.
_________________Japan Box Office “Gods are great ... but the heart is greater. For it is from our hearts they come, and to our hearts they shall return.” “We were like gods at the dawning of the world, & our joy was so bright we could see nothing else but the other.” “There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man.” “You have to pretend you get an endgame. You have to carry on like you will; otherwise, you can't carry on at all.” "Paper is dead without words / Ink idle without a poem / All the world dead without stories."
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Wed Feb 27, 2008 12:01 am |
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Mister Ecks
New Server, Same X
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2004 7:07 pm Posts: 28301 Location: ... siiiigh...
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jujubee wrote: I'm probably going to regret posting this, but it has to do with the fact that your posts, at least in the Water Cooler, add nothing to the conversation. You start/inspire threads like Boo Boo Kitty Fuck. Everyone posts stupid stuff. You usually post stupid stuff. Nothing to do with your "self confidence" (if that's what it's called, since it looks to me like you actually have self esteem problems and want constant affirmations by posting the pics you constantly do). That attention-whore aspect of your personality is also terribly annoying. (Though the attention-whore-ism is not exclusive to you in any way.)
No, you aren't evil, and I don't hate you. I just find you annoying.
Again, I'm regretting this post already, but you asked. Coming from someone who HATES Garfield.  (kidding... don't lynch me for derailing the serious conversation with my Dick-E-ish comments)
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Wed Feb 27, 2008 12:06 am |
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Maverikk
Award Winning Bastard
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2004 12:03 am Posts: 15310 Location: Slumming at KJ
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jujubee wrote: I'm probably going to regret posting this, but it has to do with the fact that your posts, at least in the Water Cooler, add nothing to the conversation. You start/inspire threads like Boo Boo Kitty Fuck. Everyone posts stupid stuff. You usually post stupid stuff. Nothing to do with your "self confidence" (if that's what it's called, since it looks to me like you actually have self esteem problems and want constant affirmations by posting the pics you constantly do). That attention-whore aspect of your personality is also terribly annoying. (Though the attention-whore-ism is not exclusive to you in any way.)
No, you aren't evil, and I don't hate you. I just find you annoying.
Again, I'm regretting this post already, but you asked. You shouldn't feel regret about open communication. It's healthy! I'm afraid that I can't speak to any of that, because I haven't been around, but in my brief time back, I've found her to be friendly, funny, and just having a good time, so I'd consider that to be adding something that appears to be very sorely needed here. We all say meaningless stuff sometimes. To quote the man, half of what I say is meaningless. 
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Wed Feb 27, 2008 12:11 am |
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El Maskado
Arrrrrrrrrrgggghhhhhhhhhh!
Joined: Tue Oct 12, 2004 8:17 pm Posts: 21572
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Just to let you know even though we disagree alot in the gamiing forum doesnt mean I dislike you if you were getting that impression. I dont think I hate anyone in particular unlike some other posters here admit
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Wed Feb 27, 2008 12:12 am |
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I Am Moses!
Speed Racer
Joined: Mon Feb 18, 2008 5:26 am Posts: 172
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Rev wrote: Mr. X wrote: Well personally, I think that...............I Am Moses! wrote: If i hated you, would i have shown you what i showed. Umm.... oooookay...  Guys this isnt about me, its about her, so yeah.... 
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Wed Feb 27, 2008 12:18 am |
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Korrgan
problem?
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I agree that you shouldn't post completely useless stuff, but I've never liked those people that think if every little thing you post isn't smart or informative, you're a total eyesore to the forum. I think forums are a place to have fun and be yourself, or whoever you wanna be. First and foremost. So let Corpse post a zillion pics of herself if she wants to, she's happy when she does it, obviously. And everything in the Boo Boo Kitty thread isn't totally dumbshit, it's mostly just people having a conversation with each other. When did stuff like that become wrong on a forum?
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Wed Feb 27, 2008 12:18 am |
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Rev
Romosexual!
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 3:06 am Posts: 32574 Location: the last free city
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Korrgan wrote: I agree that you shouldn't post completely useless stuff, but I've never liked those people that think if every little thing you post isn't smart or informative, you're a total eyesore to the forum. I think forums are a place to have fun and be yourself, or whoever you wanna be. First and foremost. So let Corpse post a zillion pics of herself if she wants to, she's happy when she does it, obviously. And everything in the Boo Boo Kitty thread isn't totally dumbshit, it's mostly just people having a conversation with each other. When did stuff like that become wrong on a forum? the day you and her started posting in colors and posting pics. DAMN U BITCHEZ!!!!!
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Wed Feb 27, 2008 12:21 am |
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Eagle
Site Owner
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You're part of the next-gen KJ'ers, and you're different. Your personality doesn't always mesh with the old status quo, and I think that's where a lot of the backlash comes from. There is no doubt that as juju said, many people don't feel it is appropriate to post the pictures you do, again, a personality choice.
I've talked to you, and you're a pretty grounded person in MOST aspects. I have no problems with you, and find you a valued member of the community. Unlike juju, I think you add value to conversations more than most.
Diversity is great, I think old and new styles both have their place.
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