Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
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FILMO
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Joined: Sat Oct 23, 2004 10:19 am Posts: 9808 Location: Suisse
Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Yeah it seems you are in the relationship/dating hell again.
Here is the video with all the information you need when looking for a woman. And you are blessed to have youtube in your age an all the cool bros worldwide to share their wisdom with the young men!
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Sun Jan 14, 2018 9:20 am
zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 21450 Location: West Chester, Pennsylvania
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman).
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 21450 Location: West Chester, Pennsylvania
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Lol, it was just such a random and childish attack. Did Groucho take his bitchy pills?
I have plenty of girl-friends. Just no girlfriend. While I certainly have lots to learn about being in a relationship, I think I have a pretty good idea concerning women, not to mention from my sisters.
Sat Feb 10, 2018 6:14 pm
Groucho
Extraordinary
Joined: Thu Oct 21, 2004 9:30 pm Posts: 12096 Location: Stroudsburg, PA
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
My original point was simple:
You want to attract women? Here's how not to do it:
"Hi, I belong to a group that believes you cannot make your own decisions about your body, that you should not be paid the same as a man, that you should not be believed when you report sexual abuse, and you should thank the lord when you get raped because it was God's will. Hey, where are you going?"
I just meant if you want to attract women, you should respect them. And being a Republican and supporting Republicans means the opposite of that.
Joined: Sat Oct 16, 2004 4:28 pm Posts: 92093 Location: Bonn, Germany
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Umm, even though I am as far removed from supporting Republican views as I can be, that would mean that Republicans stay single and don't procreate. That, in turn, would mean, that, at some point, that go extinct. Which, I'd say, is not true. It is this kind of generalizing statements that makes the divide between the sides bigger than it has to be.
This is just counter-productive.
Zwackerm might have a problem with girls. But the problem is not being Republican. The problem is just being fucking him.
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Sat Feb 10, 2018 8:39 pm
Algren
now we know
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 9:31 pm Posts: 68208 Location: Seattle, WA
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Dr. Lecter wrote:
Umm, even though I am as far removed from supporting Republican views as I can be, that would mean that Republicans stay single and don't procreate. That, in turn, would mean, that, at some point, that go extinct. Which, I'd say, is not true. It is this kind of generalizing statements that makes the divide between the sides bigger than it has to be.
This is just counter-productive.
Zwackerm might have a problem with girls. But the problem is not being Republican.
EXACTLY.
Especially bolded part.
Sat Feb 10, 2018 9:01 pm
zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 21450 Location: West Chester, Pennsylvania
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Groucho wrote:
My original point was simple:
You want to attract women? Here's how not to do it:
"Hi, I belong to a group that believes you cannot make your own decisions about your body, that you should not be paid the same as a man, that you should not be believed when you report sexual abuse, and you should thank the lord when you get raped because it was God's will. Hey, where are you going?"
I just meant if you want to attract women, you should respect them. And being a Republican and supporting Republicans means the opposite of that.
Lol what republicans have you met? I don’t believe any of those things. None of the republicans I know do either.
You’re fucking insane
FYI, the one “date” I’ve been on I did not disclose my political beliefs, though I could tell she was on the left. Belle is right wing like me; that certainly wasn’t my problem.
My main problem is I’m a coward who doesn’t want to just ask girls out and go on awkward first dates. Most of my friends who have girlfriends were friends first, which is my goal because there’s so much less pressure than on a date.
Sun Feb 11, 2018 1:20 am
Algren
now we know
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 9:31 pm Posts: 68208 Location: Seattle, WA
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
zwackerm wrote:
My main problem is I’m a coward who doesn’t want to just ask girls out and go on awkward first dates.
So, you're like most people.
Sun Feb 11, 2018 3:01 am
zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 21450 Location: West Chester, Pennsylvania
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
I actually think one of my problems is I am too obsessed with finding a girlfriend, and that's not attractive. The way you attract a woman is by being passionate about life and your interests. When the main thing you think about is how much you wish you were in a relationship, even if you don't talk about it necessarily, you will lack the passion you should have for the things in life that are actually interesting.
I really need to get passionate about my major and do more than the bare minimum when I turn in schoolwork, keep up with politics and current events, watch movies and TV shows, read the books I've wanted to get to, get my bible reading done, try to write the books I wanted to, practice my viola, finally get around to learning the piano/guitar, sing, listen to the music I love, keep going to the gym, getting stronger and better at sports, go on some of the trips I've wanted to and just absorb as much of life as I can. I feel like my life right now is sort of stagnant and boring; I do the same things day in, day out. I'm not interested in my life beyond finding a girlfriend, and I'm sure that it shows.
Fri Feb 16, 2018 10:28 am
Algren
now we know
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 9:31 pm Posts: 68208 Location: Seattle, WA
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
zwackerm wrote:
I actually think one of my problems is I am too obsessed with finding a girlfriend, and that's not attractive. The way you attract a woman is by being passionate about life and your interests. When the main thing you think about is how much you wish you were in a relationship, even if you don't talk about it necessarily, you will lack the passion you should have for the things in life that are actually interesting.
I really need to get passionate about my major and do more than the bare minimum when I turn in schoolwork, keep up with politics and current events, watch movies and TV shows, read the books I've wanted to get to, get my bible reading done, try to write the books I wanted to, practice my viola, finally get around to learning the piano/guitar, sing, listen to the music I love, keep going to the gym, getting stronger and better at sports, go on some of the trips I've wanted to and just absorb as much of life as I can. I feel like my life right now is sort of stagnant and boring; I do the same things day in, day out. I'm not interested in my life beyond finding a girlfriend, and I'm sure that it shows.
Yes.
Fri Feb 16, 2018 11:40 am
Dr. Lecter
You must have big rats
Joined: Sat Oct 16, 2004 4:28 pm Posts: 92093 Location: Bonn, Germany
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Jesus, yes, definitely yes. Especially in Algren's version.
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Fri Feb 16, 2018 11:47 am
zwackerm
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Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 21450 Location: West Chester, Pennsylvania
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Well, no. Christian girls find guys who are well versed theologically very attractive.
Fri Feb 16, 2018 11:50 am
Dr. Lecter
You must have big rats
Joined: Sat Oct 16, 2004 4:28 pm Posts: 92093 Location: Bonn, Germany
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Maybe you should widen your circle.
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I'm not interested in my life beyond finding a girlfriend
This is genuinely the saddest thing I have read all week or so. Don't mean it as a dig.
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Fri Feb 16, 2018 1:30 pm
Shack
Devil's Advocate
Joined: Sun Jul 31, 2005 2:30 am Posts: 40222
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
I think you're on this track anyways, but try to spend as much time with girls you have things in common with as you can. When a girl falls for you it's more likely going to be someone who thinks the same way you do and therefore feels like you understand them. Honestly all the girls I've had the most feelings for, feeling connected with them and my body knowing we had things in common, came before I actually found out anything about them or any of their interests
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 21450 Location: West Chester, Pennsylvania
Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Dr. Lecter wrote:
Maybe you should widen your circle.
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I'm not interested in my life beyond finding a girlfriend
This is genuinely the saddest thing I have read all week or so. Don't mean it as a dig.
Yeah, I mean it was hard to admit to myself. I came to the realization yesterday and I'm trying to do something about it.
I had lunch with Ariel today and we just talked about our passions pretty much for a good time after we discussed how I should conduct myself around Mario and Belle now that they've broken up. It's really not hard at all, just after being obsessed with Belle and then Belle and Mario for such and extended period of time, I sort of forgot how to care about other things.
And about widening my circle, I am making more of an effort to talk to non Christians, but I know a relationship with a non Christian wouldn't work, it's just too important to me
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