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getluv
i break the rules, so i don't care
Joined: Sun May 15, 2005 4:28 pm Posts: 20411
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MikeQ. wrote: I'm with Rod.
I have two friends who are engaged, and are probably the happiest couple I have seen who really love and care for each other. They don't have an "open relationship" as most people define it, but they do have a rule in that they are allowed to have threesomes with anyone they find mutually attractive. So, they can have sex together with a third person, but never sex "on the side" alone with another person.
I don't think their relationship is any less real or any less deep. In fact, I would argue their relationship is even stronger than most other supposed couples I've seen. They just have no problem admitting to each other that they find other people physically attractive and sharing those stories.
*shrug*
Peace, Mike That it is great but that is no guarantee unfortunately. All it takes is one person to get jealous and that whole wall will crumble.
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 12:38 am |
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getluv
i break the rules, so i don't care
Joined: Sun May 15, 2005 4:28 pm Posts: 20411
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libs, tell me more about this other girl, i'm interested to know if she is prettier or uglier than you.
My friend currently got two-timed for some syphilis infested trashy bitch with holes on her face. i think its worse if their ugly.
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 12:42 am |
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Libs
Sbil
Joined: Tue Oct 12, 2004 3:38 pm Posts: 48678 Location: Arlington, VA
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getluv wrote: libs, tell me more about this other girl, i'm interested to know if she is prettier or uglier than you.
My friend currently got two-timed for some syphilis infested trashy bitch with holes on her face. i think its worse if their ugly. She's pretty. But it wasn't me that got cheated on, it was my male friend. So I'm not sure why that's relevant, heh, but there you go.
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 6:52 am |
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STEVE ROGERS
The Greatest Avenger EVER
Joined: Fri Oct 29, 2004 4:02 am Posts: 18501
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Well, seeing how my post was deleted from this thread yesterday for whatever damn reason, I'd say that he's cheating on this chick cause she's not pleasing him, not getting the job done and that's what happens folks..
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 8:27 am |
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Michael.
No Wire Tampons!
Joined: Sat Jan 08, 2005 12:27 am Posts: 23283
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insomniacdude wrote: Michael. wrote: Dolcinea wrote: So young and idealistic! A relationship is not just built on all-consuming love. It is something that takes work and mutual investment from day one. Even with love, relationships can go wrong. If anything, the belief the deference towards love when there might be other pressing relationship issues is exactly why many relationships collapse. A healthy relationship will always require a lot of effort, and will not just fall from the sky and play out naturally until the end of time. Oh, and Jeff, I know it was removed, but that biologically essentialist model you provided about spreading seed and protecting children is just wrong...in...so...many...ways.  When was it formulated? In the late forties and fifties? Idealistic inspite of the world. I think despite being treated badly by people and taking some real bullshit that im still romantic and waiting for the right person speaks volumes. It's not naivety like you are suggesting. I understand theres a spectrum of relationships and different people who love in different ways. But who's to say that the big weepy ideal of true love doesn't exist. And that im going to be a lucky one? Nobody. I really hope you the best in this. I think it's the wrong approach (well, not exactly the right approach), but lucky for you, I'm not living your life. If you're content with waiting for "her," then prove me wrong. In spite of my cynicism, I hope that you do prove me wrong sooner or later, though preferably sooner. I have met maybe two people whom i can honestly say i felt a deep connection to, one i would have liked to explore and see if we were really meant for each other. Circumstances wouldn't allow, but nonetheless, i've met people i knew i would connect with, that alone is enough to keep me optimistic.
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 2:58 pm |
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getluv
i break the rules, so i don't care
Joined: Sun May 15, 2005 4:28 pm Posts: 20411
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I honestly think true love exists. and libs my advice would be to tell ur friend not to get back with her. "once a cheater always a cheater"
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 3:28 pm |
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Ripper
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Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2004 9:16 pm Posts: 7827 Location: please delete me
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I cheated once, ended it immediately ad told him the truth and in the end our relationship did not work out, though we did get back together after the fact.
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 5:45 pm |
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Ripper
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Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2004 9:16 pm Posts: 7827 Location: please delete me
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Very smooth Loyal, very smooth.
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 7:07 pm |
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getluv
i break the rules, so i don't care
Joined: Sun May 15, 2005 4:28 pm Posts: 20411
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loyal u need a slap or 3.
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 7:18 pm |
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Korrgan
problem?
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 6:52 am Posts: 15515 Location: Bait Shop
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loyalfromlondon wrote: Ripper wrote: Very smooth Loyal, very smooth. thanks. she wrote back with no mention of my girlfriend and that she's free tomorrow night and Thursday. Girls are so confusing.  Maybe you misread her arm touching and etc. and she's just not into you quite that way.
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 7:23 pm |
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Korrgan
problem?
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 6:52 am Posts: 15515 Location: Bait Shop
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loyalfromlondon wrote: Korrgan wrote: loyalfromlondon wrote: Ripper wrote: Very smooth Loyal, very smooth. thanks. she wrote back with no mention of my girlfriend and that she's free tomorrow night and Thursday. Girls are so confusing.  Maybe you misread her arm touching and etc. and she's just not into you quite that way.God I hate quoting you... It's good to have gradient text again.Maybe she's one of those dirrty skankfaces that doesn't care you have a girlfriend.
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 7:27 pm |
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Chippy
KJ's Leading Pundit
Joined: Tue Oct 12, 2004 4:45 pm Posts: 63026 Location: Tonight... YOU!
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She wants your dick in or around her mouth. 
_________________trixster wrote: shut the fuck up zwackerm, you're out of your fucking element trixster wrote: chippy is correct
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 7:33 pm |
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Chippy
KJ's Leading Pundit
Joined: Tue Oct 12, 2004 4:45 pm Posts: 63026 Location: Tonight... YOU!
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loyalfromlondon wrote: guys, she's an army captain who recruits for West Point. They abide by a higher moral code. You keep telling yourself that!
_________________trixster wrote: shut the fuck up zwackerm, you're out of your fucking element trixster wrote: chippy is correct
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 7:37 pm |
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Jeff
Christian's #1 Fan
Joined: Sat Oct 23, 2004 8:25 pm Posts: 28110 Location: Awaiting my fate
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loyalfromlondon wrote: Korrgan wrote: loyalfromlondon wrote: Ripper wrote: Very smooth Loyal, very smooth. thanks. she wrote back with no mention of my girlfriend and that she's free tomorrow night and Thursday. Girls are so confusing.  Maybe you misread her arm touching and etc. and she's just not into you quite that way.God I hate quoting you... Between her comments, switching the seat at the airport and on the flight, late night early morning texts, I don't know, that doesn't appear to be the case. Women don't always micro-read every little thing they do in that sense. Guys are more likely to assume any advances are romantic advances.
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 7:55 pm |
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Jeff
Christian's #1 Fan
Joined: Sat Oct 23, 2004 8:25 pm Posts: 28110 Location: Awaiting my fate
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loyalfromlondon wrote: guys, she's an army captain who recruits for West Point. They abide by a higher moral code. ...do you actually believe some of the schtick you say? Just wondering. 
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 7:56 pm |
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Jeff
Christian's #1 Fan
Joined: Sat Oct 23, 2004 8:25 pm Posts: 28110 Location: Awaiting my fate
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loyalfromlondon wrote: Jeff wrote: loyalfromlondon wrote: guys, she's an army captain who recruits for West Point. They abide by a higher moral code. ...do you actually believe some of the schtick you say? Just wondering.  I'm torn. It's tough for me to believe she would still pursue me knowing I have a girl, especially being a captain. But she definitely showed interest in me. I wouldn't have posted the encounter here otherwise. Girls don't play fair. There is a lot of innocent flirting by women sometimes and it doesn't mean she wants to fuck and have your babies, it just means she was flirting. I really wouldn't read too much into this and if you get uncomfortable bring up the girlfriend again, though it may start to look like you are using the girlfriend line as an excuse to not be more involved and/or to play hard to get.
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dolcevita
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Joined: Tue Oct 12, 2004 11:24 pm Posts: 16061 Location: The Damage Control Table
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Munk·E wrote: loyalfromlondon wrote: guys, she's an army captain who recruits for West Point. They abide by a higher moral code. You keep telling yourself that! I wouldn't exactly say the sexual mores of the US military are really something to write home about.
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Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:36 pm |
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Korrgan
problem?
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 6:52 am Posts: 15515 Location: Bait Shop
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You're either a slut or a prude in this life. No inbetween.
It's much more fun to be slutty.
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dolcevita
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Joined: Tue Oct 12, 2004 11:24 pm Posts: 16061 Location: The Damage Control Table
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loyalfromlondon wrote: Dolcinea wrote: Munk·E wrote: loyalfromlondon wrote: guys, she's an army captain who recruits for West Point. They abide by a higher moral code. You keep telling yourself that! I wouldn't exactly say the sexual mores of the US military are really something to write home about. Yeah, I guess sluts come in all shades. From Academia to Applebee's. Yea, pretty much. But really, couldn't you come up with a restaurant that began with a "Z"? It would have made the statement more far-reaching. You've just eliminated 25/26ths of the alphabet and its associated male/female slut contingencies.
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The Mr Pink
What would Jesus *not* do?
Joined: Fri Dec 28, 2007 12:55 am Posts: 829 Location: Going Up the Down Escalator
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Jeff wrote: loyalfromlondon wrote: Jeff wrote: loyalfromlondon wrote: guys,1. she's an army captain who recruits for West Point. They abide by a higher moral code. ...do you actually believe some of the schtick you say? Just wondering.  I'm torn. It's tough for me to believe she would still pursue me knowing I have a girl, especially being a captain. But she definitely showed interest in me. I wouldn't have posted the encounter here otherwise. [b]2.Girls don't play fair.[/b/ There is a lot of innocent flirting by women sometimes and it doesn't mean she wants to fuck and have your babies, it just means she was flirting. I really wouldn't read too much into this and if you get uncomfortable bring up the girlfriend again, though it may start to look like you are using the girlfriend line as an excuse to not be more involved and/or to play hard to get. 1. People are people, we all have needs urges and desires. 2. Damn skippy they don't. Ladies you may play the innocent but we know its just a facade. For example; Today at work I overheard a conversation between two girlfriends where one was saying to the other how she doesn't like her fiance always nagging her about the cell phone calls she gets from other guys during the middle of the night. She was explaining to her friend how she has the right to go out and meet 'guy friends' even though she is engaged. So to end her future husbands inquiries she just changes the names of her 'guy friends' to girls names. So when her phone rings at 3am its not Joe calling to hook-up but Jane looking for a shoulder to cry on and out the door she goes. Her friend was in agreement with 100%.
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