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Groucho
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Joined: Thu Oct 21, 2004 9:30 pm Posts: 12096 Location: Stroudsburg, PA
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 One of my best friends just died
And no one knows why. He said he felt tired and took a nap and never woke up. He was in his late 30s, and helped me run my LARP since around 1990. When I moved to PA, he and his wife liked it and they moved out here too.
He was one of the most creative people I knew. (You may have heard of his brother, Christian Finnegan, the comedian, who has been seen on various TV shows).
I am still in shock.
Life sucks, and that's the moral, everyone. There is no God, and if there is, he's a bastard.
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Mister Ecks
New Server, Same X
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2004 7:07 pm Posts: 28301 Location: ... siiiigh...
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Wow, I'm sorry to hear that Mike.
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Mon Mar 17, 2008 11:06 pm |
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Chippy
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Joined: Tue Oct 12, 2004 4:45 pm Posts: 63026 Location: Tonight... YOU!
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Christian
Team Kris
Joined: Thu Oct 28, 2004 5:02 pm Posts: 27584 Location: The Damage Control Table
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Sorry to hear that, Mike!  So he just never woke up...  (Christian Finnegan is one of the regulars on Best Week Ever)
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Groucho
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Joined: Thu Oct 21, 2004 9:30 pm Posts: 12096 Location: Stroudsburg, PA
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Christian wrote: Sorry to hear that, Mike! (Christian Finnegan is one of the regulars in Best Week Ever) I'm sure this won't be one of his best weeks ever. I'm sure to see him at the funeral. Damn this is depressing.
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Rev
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Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 3:06 am Posts: 32622 Location: the last free city
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sorry for your loss, Groucho.
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Mon Mar 17, 2008 11:18 pm |
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Excel
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Joined: Sat Aug 20, 2005 12:54 am Posts: 22206 Location: Places
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thats horrible, really sorry dude. It may have been a brain aneurysm: 
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Mon Mar 17, 2008 11:20 pm |
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torrino
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Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2004 7:52 pm Posts: 16020
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I'm really sorry to hear that Mike.
A kid who graduated in my HS class committed suicide three weeks ago. He was a pretty cool, popular kid with a bright future in sports (he was on baseball and football; I used to work out with him when I was younger); no one - besides maybe his best friends - had any idea he was struggling.
His passing put some things in perspective. I wish I could stay on my high horse, and continue believing that my closest colleagues (and I) are not susceptible to life's evils, but, alas, we are not an immune bunch.
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Mon Mar 17, 2008 11:24 pm |
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Excel
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Joined: Sat Aug 20, 2005 12:54 am Posts: 22206 Location: Places
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christian finnegan...that white kid from chappelle shows?
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Mon Mar 17, 2008 11:26 pm |
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Libs
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Joined: Tue Oct 12, 2004 3:38 pm Posts: 48678 Location: Arlington, VA
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Aw
I'm so sorry, Mike
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Mon Mar 17, 2008 11:26 pm |
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Maverikk
Award Winning Bastard
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2004 12:03 am Posts: 15310 Location: Slumming at KJ
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Sorry to hear that, Mike. I'm no stranger to close deaths. They are life altering. Numbing. It's an instant and jarring change that becomes the new status quo, and we are helpless to do anything but adjust to it as quickly as possible.
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Mon Mar 17, 2008 11:31 pm |
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Shack
Devil's Advocate
Joined: Sun Jul 31, 2005 2:30 am Posts: 40571
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Excel
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Joined: Sat Aug 20, 2005 12:54 am Posts: 22206 Location: Places
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Mavs right man, as hard as it is...don't turn the sadness into anger or hate. It unfortunately is a part of life that everybody goes through and god knows it more painful when its someone close than when its yourself 
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matatonio
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IM really sorry to hear that mike.
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Tue Mar 18, 2008 12:52 am |
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Grill
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Joined: Mon Jan 28, 2008 11:01 am Posts: 8684
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That is really shitty. Sorry for your loss. I actually think I saw his comedy act so I checked his MySpace Page. Anyway, I think both the friend and his wife have quotes on their pages that probably should be changed. The brother - "I Take Delight in the Misfortunes of Others!"
The Brother's wife - "I'll sleep when I'm dead."
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Tue Mar 18, 2008 2:16 am |
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Bradley Witherberry
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Joined: Sat Oct 30, 2004 1:13 pm Posts: 15197 Location: Planet Xatar
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Groucho wrote: There is no God, and if there is, he's a bastard. Sorry to hear about your loss, but... oh, oh - - sounds like your lack of faith is wavering... 
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bABA
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Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2004 12:56 am Posts: 30505 Location: Tonight ... YOU!
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sorry to hear that mike ...
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Eagle
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Joined: Wed Sep 15, 2004 1:09 pm Posts: 14631 Location: Pittsburgh
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sorry for your loss mike
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MadGez
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Joined: Sun Oct 24, 2004 9:54 am Posts: 23371 Location: Melbourne Australia
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My condolences to you and his family.
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insomniacdude
I just lost the game
Joined: Wed Oct 13, 2004 7:00 pm Posts: 5868
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I'm sorry to hear that. I've never had to experience a loss of this caliber, and I hope I'll never have to for as long as I can. I honestly don't know what is going on in your head or your heart right now, but my condolences are with you regardless.
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Dr. Lecter
You must have big rats
Joined: Sat Oct 16, 2004 4:28 pm Posts: 92093 Location: Bonn, Germany
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Sorry for the loss, Mike.
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Bradley Witherberry
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Joined: Sat Oct 30, 2004 1:13 pm Posts: 15197 Location: Planet Xatar
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insomniacdude wrote: I've never had to experience a loss of this caliber, and I hope I'll never have to for as long as I can. Unfortunately, the only way to avoid experiencing the death of friends, is to die young yourself. We're all going to die - - it's part of life.
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movies35
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Joined: Thu Nov 11, 2004 1:53 pm Posts: 8627 Location: Syracuse, NY
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I'm so sorry to hear that.  One of my best friends died three years ago yesterday. I was in eighth grade when it happened and it was quite possibly the most difficult thing I've ever had to deal with. She got hit by a drunk driver while she was delivering girl scout cookies. It still makes me incredibly upset just thinking about it. But believe me, it will hurt for quite awhile but you will be able to make yourself live with the pain and it will become much easier to live with over time. 
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STEVE ROGERS
The Greatest Avenger EVER
Joined: Fri Oct 29, 2004 4:02 am Posts: 18501
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Groucho wrote: And no one knows why. He said he felt tired and took a nap and never woke up. He was in his late 30s, and helped me run my LARP since around 1990. When I moved to PA, he and his wife liked it and they moved out here too.
He was one of the most creative people I knew. (You may have heard of his brother, Christian Finnegan, the comedian, who has been seen on various TV shows).
I am still in shock.
Life sucks, and that's the moral, everyone. There is no God, and if there is, he's a bastard. I'm sorry for your loss but maybe should consider attending a Catholic Church to help you with your loss of faith???
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Riggs
We had our time together
Joined: Thu Oct 21, 2004 4:36 am Posts: 13299 Location: Vienna
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The Incredible BKB wrote: Groucho wrote: And no one knows why. He said he felt tired and took a nap and never woke up. He was in his late 30s, and helped me run my LARP since around 1990. When I moved to PA, he and his wife liked it and they moved out here too.
He was one of the most creative people I knew. (You may have heard of his brother, Christian Finnegan, the comedian, who has been seen on various TV shows).
I am still in shock.
Life sucks, and that's the moral, everyone. There is no God, and if there is, he's a bastard. I'm sorry for your loss but maybe should consider attending a Catholic Church to help you with your loss of faith???  How should that help him??
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