Goldie has been temp banned
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bABA
Commander and Chef
Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2004 12:56 am Posts: 30505 Location: Tonight ... YOU!
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 Goldie has been temp banned
Informing everyone that Goldie has now been temp banned.
Following is the general reason:
Refusing to listen to admins and mods
Activity almost close to stalking
We all know about his history with Lecter now. While Goldie was given a fair chance just like everyone else, Lecter and company were told repeatedly to lay off him. Lecter agreed after some talk and since then, resorted to either engagin in intelligent discussion and PMing me and the mods everytime there was a problem.
Goldie was told on several (and thats an understatement) to lay off. He was later told to ignore Lecter, then ordered to ignore (which he said he will) and finally told repeatedly not to spite him.
Goldie has not siezed doing any of this. To the point that he has run out of chances.
If you're reading this Goldie, you have been banned for a period of 7 days. At the end of next Sunday, you will be allowed access again. When you come back, we expect you to
- Stop any kind of spiting against him.
- Whether Lecter starts a gazzilian threads or not, you will not follow him around and criticize even the most miniscule of statements from him that you think can be picked upon.
- You will avoid him
- If you have any issues personally with Lecter or his friends, you will do what Lecter does with us: PM.
During the 7 days, if you wish to contact us, my IM is arsibaba and my email is arsibaba@gmail.com
If anyone wishes to comment on the situation or disapprove what has happened, please use this thread.
Thank you all.
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Sun Dec 12, 2004 7:51 pm |
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lovemerox
Forum General
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Sounds good. Goldie is alright, he does contribute to the forums, but the stalking was getting ridiculous
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Sun Dec 12, 2004 8:48 pm |
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matatonio
Teh Mexican
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Sun Dec 12, 2004 8:52 pm |
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Eagle
Site Owner
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Please do not make this a bash goldie thread.
Goldie is a member of the community that I want around, and i think a lot of other people do as well.
However this was warranted, and needed to put an end to this situation. Hopefully this will now be done, and we can all move on. I never wanted to ban goldie, and tried for as long as possible to hold off, but it had gotten to the point where we felt this was needed to move forward with the situation.
KJ
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Sun Dec 12, 2004 9:03 pm |
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Bodrul
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Joined: Fri Oct 22, 2004 11:21 am Posts: 4694 Location: Cambridge, England.
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bout time
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Sun Dec 12, 2004 9:04 pm |
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Ahmed Johnson
Cream of the Crop
Joined: Sat Oct 16, 2004 12:22 pm Posts: 2226 Location: Pearl River, Mississippi
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May he re-emerge humbled
AND RENEWED
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Sun Dec 12, 2004 10:03 pm |
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zingy
College Boy Z
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Hopefully this can all be settled now.
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Sun Dec 12, 2004 10:06 pm |
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bABA
Commander and Chef
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Eagle, its not a bash goldie thread
its a thread to inform everyone
a) Goldie has been banned
b) Why hes been banned
c) If goldie reads this, he knows everything
d) a thread for people to speak out if theyre against the banning.
as promised.
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Mon Dec 13, 2004 12:42 am |
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lovemerox
Forum General
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bABA wrote: Eagle, its not a bash goldie thread
its a thread to inform everyone
a) Goldie has been banned b) Why hes been banned c) If goldie reads this, he knows everything d) a thread for people to speak out if theyre against the banning.
as promised.
I think he means for other people coming into the thread and bashing goldie
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Mon Dec 13, 2004 12:46 am |
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Dr. Lecter
You must have big rats
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lovemerox wrote: bABA wrote: Eagle, its not a bash goldie thread
its a thread to inform everyone
a) Goldie has been banned b) Why hes been banned c) If goldie reads this, he knows everything d) a thread for people to speak out if theyre against the banning.
as promised. I think he means for other people coming into the thread and bashing goldie
That's what I understood as well.
Anyway, I offered truce often enough, but some people just don't want to understand...
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Mon Dec 13, 2004 9:31 am |
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dolcevita
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For everyone's consideration:
This is a temp ban only. when/if he returns, we are going to wait and see if he has reformed. so no one jump right away. If he continues to act as he did in the past, then, please, handle it as we have in the past and notify a MOD. No biting, no baiting, no changing sigs and avatars. We want to first see if there ihas been a change.
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Mon Dec 13, 2004 2:28 pm |
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bABA
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dolcevita wrote: For everyone's consideration:
This is a temp ban only. when/if he returns, we are going to wait and see if he has reformed. so no one jump right away. If he continues to act as he did in the past, then, please, handle it as we have in the past and notify a MOD. No biting, no baiting, no changing sigs and avatars. We want to first see if there ihas been a change.
wait a minute. People were biting!?!? What is this!?!?

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Mon Dec 13, 2004 2:35 pm |
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Bodrul
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bABA wrote: dolcevita wrote: For everyone's consideration:
This is a temp ban only. when/if he returns, we are going to wait and see if he has reformed. so no one jump right away. If he continues to act as he did in the past, then, please, handle it as we have in the past and notify a MOD. No biting, no baiting, no changing sigs and avatars. We want to first see if there ihas been a change. wait a minute. People were biting!?!? What is this!?!? 
yeah, sad story. The guy came out battered.
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Mon Dec 13, 2004 2:37 pm |
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Dr. Lecter
You must have big rats
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dolcevita wrote: For everyone's consideration:
This is a temp ban only. when/if he returns, we are going to wait and see if he has reformed. so no one jump right away. If he continues to act as he did in the past, then, please, handle it as we have in the past and notify a MOD. No biting, no baiting, no changing sigs and avatars. We want to first see if there ihas been a change.
Even though we know there won't be one 
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Mon Dec 13, 2004 3:12 pm |
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Mister Ecks
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Token Brown Dude wrote: dolcevita wrote: For everyone's consideration:
This is a temp ban only. when/if he returns, we are going to wait and see if he has reformed. so no one jump right away. If he continues to act as he did in the past, then, please, handle it as we have in the past and notify a MOD. No biting, no baiting, no changing sigs and avatars. We want to first see if there ihas been a change. wait a minute. People were biting!?!? What is this!?!? 
My bad, bABA. I saw him and thought he was one of those Goldfish crackers.
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Wed Dec 15, 2004 6:48 pm |
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Maverikk
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Dr. Lecter wrote: dolcevita wrote: For everyone's consideration:
This is a temp ban only. when/if he returns, we are going to wait and see if he has reformed. so no one jump right away. If he continues to act as he did in the past, then, please, handle it as we have in the past and notify a MOD. No biting, no baiting, no changing sigs and avatars. We want to first see if there ihas been a change. Even though we know there won't be one 
Lecter, I know how it feels to have posters follow you around like they're some kind of obsessed stalker, and it's something that Goldie needs to lay off, but comments like this one are part of the problem. It was an uncalled for shot at the guy. Give him a chance to do wrong before deciding that "we" know what the outcome will be. I know you know I'm not coming after you where he's concerned, but you have to be bigger than him, and not make comments to draw him out, because it's not going to reflect good on you.
Goldie, if you are listening, take my words in. Fun is fun, but when it comes to crossing the line, which you do with the attention (and negative attention) you give to Lecter, it's time to step back and re-evaluate why you come to these forums, and hopefully, the answer doesn't have anything to do with negative feelings toward one of the members. What the hell kind of motivation is that for spending your day and energy on?
If you come back, BOTH of you guys need to stay away from eachother, or treat eachother as you would anybody else. Just start over. It's not so hard to do. If killing your reputation over personal grudges like I have done is worth it to you, I have to question why. Trust me, it's not worth something as important as your credibility.
Good luck!
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Sat Dec 18, 2004 4:48 pm |
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Ahmed Johnson
Cream of the Crop
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Goldmaster we love you come back!!!
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Sat Dec 18, 2004 5:02 pm |
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bABA
Commander and Chef
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Goldie is unbanned
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Sun Dec 19, 2004 2:28 am |
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matatonio
Teh Mexican
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Token Brown Dude wrote: Goldie is unbanned
welcome back goldie :? ............. 
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Sun Dec 19, 2004 2:34 am |
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Terminator1997
George A. Romero
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welcome back goldie....i...i think 
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Sun Dec 19, 2004 2:53 am |
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dolcevita
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Maverikk wrote: Lecter, I know how it feels to have posters follow you around like they're some kind of obsessed stalker, and it's something that Goldie needs to lay off, but comments like this one are part of the problem. It was an uncalled for shot at the guy. Give him a chance to do wrong before deciding that "we" know what the outcome will be. I know you know I'm not coming after you where he's concerned, but you have to be bigger than him, and not make comments to draw him out, because it's not going to reflect good on you.
Goldie, if you are listening, take my words in. Fun is fun, but when it comes to crossing the line, which you do with the attention (and negative attention) you give to Lecter, it's time to step back and re-evaluate why you come to these forums, and hopefully, the answer doesn't have anything to do with negative feelings toward one of the members. What the hell kind of motivation is that for spending your day and energy on?
If you come back, BOTH of you guys need to stay away from eachother, or treat eachother as you would anybody else. Just start over. It's not so hard to do. If killing your reputation over personal grudges like I have done is worth it to you, I have to question why. Trust me, it's not worth something as important as your credibility.
Good luck!
Thank-you.
That was very well said, and I hope everyone paid close attention to it.
Its stuff like this that should prove to you that you haven't infact lost your credibility, and with each similarly intelligent post you negate ten such contrary past ones.
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Sun Dec 19, 2004 3:00 am |
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Ahmed Johnson
Cream of the Crop
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Token Brown Dude wrote: Goldie is unbanned

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Sun Dec 19, 2004 8:05 am |
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Bodrul
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sup Goldie  welcome back
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Sun Dec 19, 2004 10:49 am |
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Mister Ecks
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WON'T SOMEONE PLEASE THINK OF THE CHILDREN?!
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zingy
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