I guess I don't mind being open about stuff.

- What you call Self-confidence, to me, is something you're just saying, and you do not believe in it either. You're an attention seeker because you're terribly insecure and personally in my opinion, you'd try to gain that attention even at the expense of other people. Now you want to be open with no bullshitting ..... I'll be open about it. 1. You and a certain other poster went around thinking it would be funny to tell other people how a certain person here has been sending you nudie shots when this person, was doing nothing of the sort. I once had a convo with you and a certain other poster when i was put under the impression that the 2 of you were being stalked by someone here who was much older to you and you were both under 18. i spoke with the 2 of you to let you know that if such behavior continues and they feel uncomfortable to let me know and to please be careful. its amazing how just a couple of months later, 2. i heard you wanted to doctor my own words and post on the site that i was coming on to you during that conversation. So you wonder why people have a bad impression of you.

- There are some personality traits to you that are likable that people have already mentioned. However, there are quite a few that are extremely distasteful. You've started threads or commented here about things you dislike, either to do with your life or something completely different yet you're3. one of those that refuses to take any responsibility for any of your actions or don't take responsibility for the part you play in things. We've seen numerous examples of this from time and time again, ranging from the hell you created at another forum, to your self-pity session regarding how everyone's life around you is moving on and yours isn't to coming off telling everyone who horrible they are for eating meat yet from the convo, it seemed you worked at a fast food chain which you completely justified in your own reasoning. Such aspects of a person's personality are quite quite horrible.

- 4. I personally dislike anyone who PUSHES themselves on others and you're one of those. To you, you're different than others and i don't know if you find people around you accept it but you go out of your way in these forums to constantly show this. Some might call this bravely pushing boundaries. I call it someone doing this for the sake of doing this. You force people to accept you irregardless of if they are indifferent to you or not. Personally, i do not think that half the people on these boards who have over time, started to dislike you even cared about you and i think this single point is why people have developed a general hatred for you.

those are probably the 3 main reasons why i personally dislike you and i won't be surprised if others feel similar as well but its best for me not to speak of them. you can be a very nice person who's willing to provide an ear when someone is in need of consoling. but i personally do not trust you and i'm personally not very big on your character. lets just say that if i had a daughter growing up at the same time as you, i'd take the extra step to ensure you 2 never hung out .... and i'm normally against that kind of an attitude.

For the record, that was Gulli's doing.

And a big reason why I don't see a problem with it is because you can never push yourself on someone, they let you push themselves on you.[/b][/color]

1. I have no idea what you are talking about in the first line I bolded....or I just can't remember anything like that.

2. As for the second, I will NEVER post/twist someone's words and post them to harm them in any way. I was planning to do this to you (not the hurt thing, the twisting your convo around), but I decided not to since it seemed you may be one who wouldn't find it funny. Which is always my goal when I do such a thing.

You missed the point of the post, which is that your character makes such statements completely believable. and the fact that you'd find a situation like that funny as you just stated is the very reason why someone like you disturbs me

3. If you seriously go look at what I've done at some other forum, and not at this forum, it makes it seem I haven't done much here to piss you off. You don't know the entire situation, and neither does Nanna. Only Shack and I could tell you everything. Not a middle man. And the action I chose that started that mess was to suspend certain posters for a few weeks, and if you ask that one who posts here now, I think he may admit he was crossing the line now after looking back on it.

My comments are not based upon what Manda or anyone has ever said. Hell, not even Shack. They're solely based upon your attitude at KJ when you were first banned and your resulting comments here and at BOF (yes, i did visit the site from time to time) in regards to your own defending. It wasn't so much your actions that bothered me as much as your justification for what happened.

4. I'm not the only one who you can say "pushes" themselves on others here. You do it too. Not saying it's bad or anything, because I don't think it is. And a big reason why I don't see a problem with it is because you can never push yourself on someone, they let you push themselves on you.[/b][/color]

All very good but then again, i'm not the one asking why i'm disliked or not. You did. So i'm letting you know. I'm quite well aware of what i do on this forum and quite well aware of how certain people think of me. However, I do not quite understand why you're defending your own actions here again. You wanted to know why people felt a certain way. Your telling me that you don't find any issue with it isn't going to change that i still dislike that thing about you or your reasoning for why you did/do it. once again, you're sitting here and pointing out how you're perfectly right in what you do and others should somehow cater to you, which to me, sort of defeats the purpose of such threads to begin with.

whaaaaaaaaaaaaaa thats like an excuse you could use for rape!!

I'll assume you just misworded what you meant because that line is well............nutty.

Whoa.

I just got an email from Gullimont welcoming me to filmorgasm. You're an admin there?

Who's in charge there then? Give me a hierarchy.

Who's in charge there then? Give me a hierarchy.

Who's in charge there then? Give me a hierarchy.

There's no such thing as rapists, only people who allow themselves to be raped. Right?

and you missed the point. I ignore you most of the time. But just because i ignore you doesn't mean i can't formulate an opinion on you. I ignore the guy you constantly comes in my way repeatedly. but i still dislike him for being an attention seeker.

Again, what do you want? Is this thread about you wanting people to tell you why they dislike you? is this about you wanting others to stay out of your way? what? from what i can see, its been a long time since anyone here has told you what you should and should not do. the last guy was Michael and he was kindly asked not to do that anymore.

So making things less fun for others is fun?

The thing is that my actions were material for suspension. I did go way overboard.

But the problem is that the site was really not in a situation to have any suspension of anyone. Suspending someone on a site that didn't have that much heavy traffic is probably not the best thing to do. I mean, we just recently suspended Fastness from BOF, which I thought was a horrible decision despite the fact that he probably deserved to be suspended. Because even though people didn't neccessairly like what he was saying, at least he was posting, and causing others to post. That's why BOF needs, and needed back then. People just need to post. Once you have enough people posting, then you get set up regulations and enforce them.

It would have been the right action to take had BOF been in the state that KJ is now.