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This thread is so the frontrunner for Best Thread and Most Memorable Event at next year's Poster Awards.

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This thread is so the frontrunner for Best Thread and Most Memorable Event at next year's Poster Awards.


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Well Corpse, if you didn't want this talked about in public, why did you post it? I just responded because I was being accused of something, no other reason. I tend to be a laid back, easy going guy, but what the heck, if someone calls me a stalker, I'm going to call them out on it!

Corpse, we've had like 4 really detailed conversations online. That's honestly about it. We've had maybe 15-20 conversations total, most site related. Doesn't a stalker, I don't know, stalk? Wouldn't I be like, IM'ing you constantly? Wouldn't you, I don't know, stop responding?

Honestly, did me IM'ing you asking you to look at a site, asking for feedback on bonanza, did these things lead you to believe that I just had to talk to you? I'm sorry if that gave you that impression, I just wanted feedback. I do it to many people, I'll take you off that list.

But I don't want to talk to you in private, because I'm afraid you'll start thinking I'm in love with you, stalking you, or something to that nature. I honestly have no clue where this is coming from, it's freaking me out, and I just want to back away slowly until I'm far enough away that I can turn my back and run.



The original topic of this thread wasn't something I cared about being talked about in public, because like you said, why else would I have started it? What I do care about is our discussion starting a few pages back. Because it's not something that needs to be seen by everyone, and it's obvious it needs locked. And I'm suggesting you lock it (and any mockery threads related to this discussion because I AM offended by them) and to take it to AIM or something, but you don't want to do the latter, so ignoring it forever is the only thing left to do. It's obvious this will go nowhere anytime soon, so I think that's the best thing to do. As do many members here I'm sure.


THE HELL!?!?!?!??!?!

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Quit acting like a little girl who is gonna pick up her ball and go home because she's not getting her way.

Look, most people on this forum like you. Most people, like myself, feel you bring a lot to the forum. There are others, who don't agree. They don't like how open you are with your body, they don't like the way you seek attention, and the list goes on.

You do seek attention!

Stop apologizing for it, there's nothing wrong with it.

Yet you make a thread like this, ask for opinions, and then you feel the need to explain to the person complaining why things are the way they are. Arsi and juju have a point in this regard. If you ask for opinions:

- Take them.
- Change if you find them valid.
- Ignore them otherwise.
- If you don't understand, ask for more information.

That's all people want, they don't want you to continue explaining things away. You say you don't care what people think, but it's so obvious that you DO. If you didn't care, then why not just ignore the comments, or better yet, learn from them.

Life isn't perfect, the world isn't fair, just do your best to show everyone respect, even if they don't deserve it, and leave the rest to fate.


That was eagle's reply. To you directly. Straight to the point. Exactly in the same nature and tone that everyone else is replying in.

you ... YOU!! You brought up that whole stalker shit! Now YOU"RE saying that shit should have never gotten out of hand! The man defends himself!

Man ... if there is one person who absolves themselves from not just all responsibility for things but instead finds a way to plug it on another person .... I haven't found one that takes it to a level like you do. I'm starting to see why BOf went down. Thank God most of us here don't buy into your whinyness.

Man, for someone whose accusing another of being a stalker, you sure do want to talk to them even more in private.

I like eagle's thread. I'm keeping it open. Its fun. I also like the other dislike/like threads. they're great.



Yes I'm saying it should have never got out of hand, and I am taking some responsiblity for it going out of hand. So I don't see where you "if there is one person who absolves themselves from not just all responsibility for things but instead finds a way to plug it on another person" is coming from. The first step Eagle should have taken when I responded to him was to ask me to take it to AIM or PM's, not on the board. So I decided to suggest this myself now. Why do you think I'm offering to stop it? Like I normally do? But this never works.

Eagle's four things he mentioned I should done were exactly what I was doing in this thread. I took some of them. None were posted that suggested a change. I ignored some of them. And I asked for more information on some of them. But, when I did this, what did everyone say? You are asking for more information because you want more attention.

What kind of message does not locking this thread, which has offended me, and other posters here, and the ones related to it (Im not talking about the dislike/like threads) send to other posters?


it sends the simple message that one should learn to take responsibility for the thread they create.

it is not for us to come in here and close this thread right now. if you really do not like the course this thread is taking, you should, whether you like it or not, back off and stop posting. it will die within the day. but ofcourse, you expect someone else to fix the issue which is asking someone else to close this thread and every other thread that personally bothers you.

Which i don't quite understand as you yoruself said things can't bother you if you don't let them. If you have a problem with those threads, by your definition, don't go into them. They have nothing to do with you. They dont even talk about you. we're all in there having our own bit of fun.

So no. this thread isn't getting closed. Someone quite important to me has been accused of stalking someone, barely 20. i take this shit very seriously. over the last couple of years, we've sat here and indirectly warned you about this shit. some of us even got shit from others for what gave us the right to say what a person does here or doesn't .. we're not people's parents .. yet not only did we sit here and do our due deligence, we even went to IM to tell you personally and a couple of other people to you know .. show an extra ounce of responsibility. Those things fell on deaf ears. Today, i got someone close to me, who has a much higher credibility than you would of stalking. well .. you reap what you sow. Today, i give him the opportunity to defend himself and for you to prove it. and for that i refuse to close this thread.

Advice? You don't want people stalking you? You don't want the wrong kind of people looking at pictures of you? You want us to create a much more safer environment to make women on our boards more comfortable, i prefer someone like you takes that first step and maybe acts as responsible as the rest of the women here on this board. Hell, even right now, you're fueling creepy guys on this board that others are having some major issues with (and we all know who we're talking about). Till then, you can continue to keep crying wolf anytime you fall so far into your lies and justifications that you start accusing people of doing one thing or the other. I'm not buying any of it. I'm still goign to keep an eye out for creepy stalkers and stop them from doing any harm but really, i have little sympathy for those who are asking for it.



First of all, you have no right to tell someone whether or not they should or should not be offended. That's why I ASKED Eagle if I offended him. There is no reason to take responsibility for this thread, the orginal idea of it. I am taking part of the blame for what it's become though. The other half should go on Eagle for helping to keep it open and to keep defending himself (which I'm not saying he shouldn't do, like I'm not willing to do) <<-----And that is why I'm suggesting this gets moved elsewhere. And I've noticed the friendship thing here gets in the way of the right thing to do, WAY too often. What you think of another poster should take a back seat in situations like this. I've had posters I like get into arguments here, and feel upset, but I wasn't going to jump in and help defend them. Because it's NOT MY PLACE. Just like it's NOT YOUR PLACE to be in this personal (unfortunately) discussion with me and Eagle. No matter what feelings you have for him. Much like when Gulli was into a small testy conversation with Omni (good friend) in one of the critics forum threads. I could care less about that. I wasn't going to go jump in and start defending anyone.

And I'll say it once again until it sticks. I do NOT care if people LOOK at me. I would NOT post pictures if that was the case. If I end up having a problem with someone over it, I will tell them or ignore them. And it's sad that this thread was used to tell Eagle this.

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Well Corpse, if you didn't want this talked about in public, why did you post it? I just responded because I was being accused of something, no other reason. I tend to be a laid back, easy going guy, but what the heck, if someone calls me a stalker, I'm going to call them out on it!

Corpse, we've had like 4 really detailed conversations online. That's honestly about it. We've had maybe 15-20 conversations total, most site related. Doesn't a stalker, I don't know, stalk? Wouldn't I be like, IM'ing you constantly? Wouldn't you, I don't know, stop responding?

Honestly, did me IM'ing you asking you to look at a site, asking for feedback on bonanza, did these things lead you to believe that I just had to talk to you? I'm sorry if that gave you that impression, I just wanted feedback. I do it to many people, I'll take you off that list.

But I don't want to talk to you in private, because I'm afraid you'll start thinking I'm in love with you, stalking you, or something to that nature. I honestly have no clue where this is coming from, it's freaking me out, and I just want to back away slowly until I'm far enough away that I can turn my back and run.



The original topic of this thread wasn't something I cared about being talked about in public, because like you said, why else would I have started it? What I do care about is our discussion starting a few pages back. Because it's not something that needs to be seen by everyone, and it's obvious it needs locked. And I'm suggesting you lock it (and any mockery threads related to this discussion because I AM offended by them) and to take it to AIM or something, but you don't want to do the latter, so ignoring it forever is the only thing left to do. It's obvious this will go nowhere anytime soon, so I think that's the best thing to do. As do many members here I'm sure.


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Quit acting like a little girl who is gonna pick up her ball and go home because she's not getting her way.

Look, most people on this forum like you. Most people, like myself, feel you bring a lot to the forum. There are others, who don't agree. They don't like how open you are with your body, they don't like the way you seek attention, and the list goes on.

You do seek attention!

Stop apologizing for it, there's nothing wrong with it.

Yet you make a thread like this, ask for opinions, and then you feel the need to explain to the person complaining why things are the way they are. Arsi and juju have a point in this regard. If you ask for opinions:

- Take them.
- Change if you find them valid.
- Ignore them otherwise.
- If you don't understand, ask for more information.

That's all people want, they don't want you to continue explaining things away. You say you don't care what people think, but it's so obvious that you DO. If you didn't care, then why not just ignore the comments, or better yet, learn from them.

Life isn't perfect, the world isn't fair, just do your best to show everyone respect, even if they don't deserve it, and leave the rest to fate.


That was eagle's reply. To you directly. Straight to the point. Exactly in the same nature and tone that everyone else is replying in.

you ... YOU!! You brought up that whole stalker shit! Now YOU"RE saying that shit should have never gotten out of hand! The man defends himself!

Man ... if there is one person who absolves themselves from not just all responsibility for things but instead finds a way to plug it on another person .... I haven't found one that takes it to a level like you do. I'm starting to see why BOf went down. Thank God most of us here don't buy into your whinyness.

Man, for someone whose accusing another of being a stalker, you sure do want to talk to them even more in private.

I like eagle's thread. I'm keeping it open. Its fun. I also like the other dislike/like threads. they're great.



Yes I'm saying it should have never got out of hand, and I am taking some responsiblity for it going out of hand. So I don't see where you "if there is one person who absolves themselves from not just all responsibility for things but instead finds a way to plug it on another person" is coming from. The first step Eagle should have taken when I responded to him was to ask me to take it to AIM or PM's, not on the board. So I decided to suggest this myself now. Why do you think I'm offering to stop it? Like I normally do? But this never works.

Eagle's four things he mentioned I should done were exactly what I was doing in this thread. I took some of them. None were posted that suggested a change. I ignored some of them. And I asked for more information on some of them. But, when I did this, what did everyone say? You are asking for more information because you want more attention.

What kind of message does not locking this thread, which has offended me, and other posters here, and the ones related to it (Im not talking about the dislike/like threads) send to other posters?


it sends the simple message that one should learn to take responsibility for the thread they create.

it is not for us to come in here and close this thread right now. if you really do not like the course this thread is taking, you should, whether you like it or not, back off and stop posting. it will die within the day. but ofcourse, you expect someone else to fix the issue which is asking someone else to close this thread and every other thread that personally bothers you.

Which i don't quite understand as you yoruself said things can't bother you if you don't let them. If you have a problem with those threads, by your definition, don't go into them. They have nothing to do with you. They dont even talk about you. we're all in there having our own bit of fun.

So no. this thread isn't getting closed. Someone quite important to me has been accused of stalking someone, barely 20. i take this shit very seriously. over the last couple of years, we've sat here and indirectly warned you about this shit. some of us even got shit from others for what gave us the right to say what a person does here or doesn't .. we're not people's parents .. yet not only did we sit here and do our due deligence, we even went to IM to tell you personally and a couple of other people to you know .. show an extra ounce of responsibility. Those things fell on deaf ears. Today, i got someone close to me, who has a much higher credibility than you would of stalking. well .. you reap what you sow. Today, i give him the opportunity to defend himself and for you to prove it. and for that i refuse to close this thread.

Advice? You don't want people stalking you? You don't want the wrong kind of people looking at pictures of you? You want us to create a much more safer environment to make women on our boards more comfortable, i prefer someone like you takes that first step and maybe acts as responsible as the rest of the women here on this board. Hell, even right now, you're fueling creepy guys on this board that others are having some major issues with (and we all know who we're talking about). Till then, you can continue to keep crying wolf anytime you fall so far into your lies and justifications that you start accusing people of doing one thing or the other. I'm not buying any of it. I'm still goign to keep an eye out for creepy stalkers and stop them from doing any harm but really, i have little sympathy for those who are asking for it.



First of all, you have no right to tell someone whether or not they should or should not be offended. That's why I ASKED Eagle if I offended him. There is no reason to take responsibility for this thread, the orginal idea of it.

If you have the right in this thread to tell other people if its any of their business or if they should like/dislike your posts in this forum or stay/not stay out of threads created/dominated by you, then no ... i have every right to state what is offensive and what is not. So please, speak to the hand.


I am taking part of the blame for what it's become though. The other half should go on Eagle for helping to keep it open and to keep defending himself (which I'm not saying he shouldn't do, like I'm not willing to do) <<-----And that is why I'm suggesting this gets moved elsewhere.

You accuse someone for something and then blame them for continuing the conversation? I say thats rich. You make something public, the person who is accused has every right to keep it public. Whether it goes private or remains public is upto him. You DO NOT get the right to decide that no more. You may respectfully disagree but by this point, i question your ability to rationalize is any higher than that of ... well .. I'd say it but i guess i'm not allowed to make such personal attacks .. but gosh do i feel like.

And I've noticed the friendship thing here gets in the way of the right thing to do, WAY too often. What you think of another poster should take a back seat in situations like this. I've had posters I like get into arguments here, and feel upset, but I wasn't going to jump in and help defend them. Because it's NOT MY PLACE. Just like it's NOT YOUR PLACE to be in this personal (unfortunately) discussion with me and Eagle.

Well then. That makes you quite the horrid friend. Someone is my friend. Something happened in public on a board i run with him. If Eagle has a fight with his Gf, thats his private affair. If something happens here, I'll speak up. If eagle doesn't appreciate it, hes friend enough and comfortable enough to let me know and tell me to drop it. And i will. But he hasn't yet so I won't.

I got friends .... female friends who've had to take crap from guys ... I've run at 2 in the morning cause a friend walking home at night didn't feel safe. I have friends who are guys accused of the kind of shit you're accusing eagle of ... it ain't pretty when women do that .. cause society takes this kind of shit seriously. very seriously. You can't just casually drop little words like that and expect everyone to just sit around with a cup of tea in their hands with crumpets on the side waiting to see how everything unravels ultimately patting the right person and saying 'jolly good'.



No matter what feelings you have for him. Much like when Gulli was into a small testy conversation with Omni (good friend) in one of the critics forum threads. I could care less about that. I wasn't going to go jump in and start defending anyone.

And I'll say it once again until it sticks. I do NOT care if people LOOK at me. I would NOT post pictures if that was the case. If I end up having a problem with someone over it, I will tell them or ignore them. And it's sad that this thread was used to tell Eagle this.

Quite unfortunate, cause now, you do have to deal with the rest of us.
And you've gone around in circles so many times now, i'm not really concerned with statements from you the likes of "you don't care about people looking at you or posting pictures". frankly, you don't yet you do under some situations yet you want others to cater and protect you and send you little messages. News Flash. There is a little place out there that may exist that can cater to all these requests. I believe its called Happy Fairytale lands. I'll send you directions once I get the coordinates to the place myself.

so keep saying it. i've decided i'll be just as stubborn about this


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And it's sad that this thread was used to tell Eagle this


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It's funny because you're honestly, genuinely serious. You get mad, make these silly stalker accusations, and then feel so awful about how it all got started, that you accept part of the blame.


Look Corpse, if you honestly felt this way, then you should have talked to me about it. You can say we talked about it before, but in my recollection it came up once, and it seemed like a blatant joke at the time. Remember, we laughed about how ironic it was since you were talking about moving to where I live?

You can get offended all you want, but only one person had a picture of themselves posted in the thread with the other person explaining how she would never ... , and only one person has been accused of stalking someone here.

You can be offended, but your the one playing all the defamation games here.

If you honestly thought that anything I said was perverted, stalkerish, or not right, you should have called me on it, not laughed then just to do this later. You never gave me the opinion in any of our conversations that you didn't want to be talking, you never stopped talking to me, you never asked me not to talk to you, you never told me you were uncomfortable, you never gave me any signs that you were feeling this way.

And you're offended?

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i'm jealous about all the attention Corpse is getting atm. i bet shes fucking enjoying this. Malboro light on the left hand and a nice glass of red in her right hand.

i want in.

baba, i accuse u of cybaraping me 3 seconds ago. it was traumatic.


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i'm jealous about all the attention Corpse is getting atm. i bet shes fucking enjoying this. Malboro light on the left hand and a nice glass of red in her right hand.

i want in.

baba, i accuse u of cybaraping me 3 seconds ago. it was traumatic.


i did do that. so i don't really know what you want me to say ...


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bABA wrote:
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i'm jealous about all the attention Corpse is getting atm. i bet shes fucking enjoying this. Malboro light on the left hand and a nice glass of red in her right hand.

i want in.

baba, i accuse u of cybaraping me 3 seconds ago. it was traumatic.


i did do that. so i don't really know what you want me to say ...


is it rape if you enjoyed it?


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getluv wrote:
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i'm jealous about all the attention Corpse is getting atm. i bet shes fucking enjoying this. Malboro light on the left hand and a nice glass of red in her right hand.

i want in.

baba, i accuse u of cybaraping me 3 seconds ago. it was traumatic.


i did do that. so i don't really know what you want me to say ...


is it rape if you enjoyed it?


i may have to do this once more to be sure. Ready?


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I will give you a rundown of the rules BOTH of us have broken:

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1. The administrators’ most important responsibility is monitoring the health of the forum. If the administrators feel that someone or something is having a negative effect on the forum, they will address the issue and will rectify it. They will employ the use of the moderators and will also ask the forum members for assistance and cooperation.

This isn't a healthy public converstation at ALL. This is having a negative effect on the forum. It is NOT being addressed (and I'm the one who has offered to end it of all people).

6. Language:. Members will be requested to be civil towards each other and not engage in any kind of racial slurs whatsoever. The moderators realize that there are occasions where certain undesirable words may be used in a discussion topic. The moderators will reserve the right to judge if it will pass for an offense or not. In addition to that, members are requested to be respectful towards one another. If constant attempts by a member to spite others for the sake of fun are noticed by the administrators or moderators, the member’s actions will be addressed. As mentioned above, the administrator’s main responsibility is the health of the forums. If a member is purposely trying to ‘piss’ others off, it effects the health of the forum!

Now, the only thing in this part that needs to be addressed in the underline bit. Because I'm doubting anything was done to you know who for that double account, which was clearly meant to be for the sake of fun. And people encouraging this are just as bad.


8. Posting style and behavior: We do not dictate how a person should and should not post a message or where they should post a message. But sometimes, a member’s actions pose a threat to the health of the forums. A word of advice is to be tactful and respectful about how you post. We are all from different places here and have a different way of conversing. We find different things offensive. Joke around with who you know will take a joke. Also learn to take a joke from others. But if a member is purposely found bothering a poster again and again just because you feel they think they have the right to say what they feel like, it will not fly well with the moderators and administrators here. Action will be taken against that member.

So saying that one should or should not be offended is up to NO BODY to say, but the person that feels they were offended.


9. Personal Attacks: Flame wars are a part of forums. The moderators and administrators will keep a check on any disagreements taking place between certain members here. The moderators will encourage ways to sort out the problems. As long as the discussion pertains to the subject at hand, the discussion is fine. If a moderator notices that a purely healthy discussion is turning into attacks on a person’s character or issues that are in no way relevant to the topic at hand, the moderators will step in and warn users from engaging in this type of behavior. Bottom line: Do not attack a person’s character, looks, and/or social life if it has no connection at all to the topic at hand.

You have attacked my character, I have attacked your character. I have attacked your looks, and all of this has NOTHING to do with the TOPIC of this thread.


11. Member input: Please advise the moderators and administrators of the site of your concerns. This may be regarding the behavior of another member, problems with the site or anything that may concern the forum directly.

I've been doing this for the past few pages.


Added: Forum (mis)conduct.

If you are suspicious someone is just being a blatant obnoxious spammer, or if someone has excessive use of language that makes you uncomfortable...OR if the content of a message is particularly upsetting to you:

1. Do not respond directly to it in the thread. This is what leaps threads at the top of the forum instead of sinking to the bottom. If it is a thread you do not like, just do not comment in it. If it is a post in an interesting thread, do not respond to it, respond to the posts pre and/or anticeding it as though the comment was not there.


The content of many of your posts have offended/upset me. Just like mine have to you I'm sure. And we have BOTH responded to something we haven't liked in here. And so has everyone who didn't like the original topic of this thread.









So, why is it open again?

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I've attacked your character?

I've said nothing but nice things about you. I told you before, and I'll say it again, I still think you're a valuable poster, who brings a lot to the forum, and does a lot for the forum. I've said it before in this thread, and I'll say it again now.

The problem is, you apparently lack good judgment, you don't realize the weight of the things you're accusing me of, and you seem to not care about anyone but yourself.

This thread is open because, aside for the attacks YOU are making, there is nothing really going on that I feel really violates rules. And as I said in this thread before, double accounts are frowned upon, and if you want your name back, you can have it.

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1. The administrators’ most important responsibility is monitoring the health of the forum. If the administrators feel that someone or something is having a negative effect on the forum, they will address the issue and will rectify it. They will employ the use of the moderators and will also ask the forum members for assistance and cooperation.

This isn't a healthy public converstation at ALL. This is having a negative effect on the forum. It is NOT being addressed (and I'm the one who has offered to end it of all people).


Fuck it having a negative effect this is the best thread I've seen in the watercooler in Months.

In other news I can't beleive you cyberraped getluv arsi you have no idea where he's been!!

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I love Internet dramaz. This is more melodramatic than an episode of Days of Our Lives.

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bABA wrote:
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i'm jealous about all the attention Corpse is getting atm. i bet shes fucking enjoying this. Malboro light on the left hand and a nice glass of red in her right hand.

i want in.

baba, i accuse u of cybaraping me 3 seconds ago. it was traumatic.


i did do that. so i don't really know what you want me to say ...


is it rape if you enjoyed it?


i may have to do this once more to be sure. Ready?


the first time was better. so i think the 2nd time was rape.

what do you call it when someone gets raped twice in 5 minutes. Box just raped me. It's not gang-rape or tag-team rape because u know, its cybarape.


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Ericka wrote:

1. The administrators’ most important responsibility is monitoring the health of the forum. If the administrators feel that someone or something is having a negative effect on the forum, they will address the issue and will rectify it. They will employ the use of the moderators and will also ask the forum members for assistance and cooperation.

This isn't a healthy public converstation at ALL. This is having a negative effect on the forum. It is NOT being addressed (and I'm the one who has offered to end it of all people).


Fuck it having a negative effect this is the best thread I've seen in the watercooler in Months.

In other news I can't beleive you cyberraped getluv arsi you have no idea where he's been!!


yeah i went to chinatown yesterday. i got crabs.


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Couple of questions:

1. Corpse claims she and others are offended by this thread. Out of curiosity, who are the others?

2. Corpse said she would just ignore this thread if Eagle refused to close it. He has, so why won't she ignore it? :(

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and now she turns to rules to counter everything



This isn't a healthy public converstation at ALL. This is having a negative effect on the forum. It is NOT being addressed (and I'm the one who has offered to end it of all people).

Word has it that people are quite enjoying this thread .. maybe not you. its spawned some hit threads as well.


Now, the only thing in this part that needs to be addressed in the underline bit. Because I'm doubting anything was done to you know who for that double account, which was clearly meant to be for the sake of fun. And people encouraging this are just as bad.

Amazing. Why just the underline bit? Cause it works in your favor? Frankly, like you yourself earlier said, things won't bother people if they don't get bothered by things, you really shouldn't be complaining about it.


So saying that one should or should not be offended is up to NO BODY to say, but the person that feels they were offended.

yet when everyone here tells you how they're offended by your pictures, your posts and everything, you tell others to mind their own business and they have no business liking/disliking those things. Again, you're asking me to apply rules when they somehow work in your favor.

You have attacked my character, I have attacked your character. I have attacked your looks, and all of this has NOTHING to do with the TOPIC of this thread.

I've also attacked people in my threads when i tell them how they feel and they volunteer for it. By opening this thread, you've volunteered for no holds barred comments ... and even if one says the thread i spawned due to this is meant to be funny, i've opened myself up for personal attacks as well which i really shouldn't be crying about if thrown at me. Personally, you've attacked back people which you never promised to begin with as far as very daunting accusations .. really ... if you want me implementing these rules in the strictest of sense, you would have already been warned, banned for a week, then 2 and then maybe a month. But we're nice people and we let things go quite a bit.

11. Member input: Please advise the moderators and administrators of the site of your concerns. This may be regarding the behavior of another member, problems with the site or anything that may concern the forum directly.11. Member input: Please advise the moderators and administrators of the site of your concerns. This may be regarding the behavior of another member, problems with the site or anything that may concern the forum directly.

I've been doing this for the past few pages.


Thank you for your input. It has been invaluable.

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If you are suspicious someone is just being a blatant obnoxious spammer, or if someone has excessive use of language that makes you uncomfortable...OR if the content of a message is particularly upsetting to you:

1. Do not respond directly to it in the thread. This is what leaps threads at the top of the forum instead of sinking to the bottom. If it is a thread you do not like, just do not comment in it. If it is a post in an interesting thread, do not respond to it, respond to the posts pre and/or anticeding it as though the comment was not there.

The content of many of your posts have offended/upset me. Just like mine have to you I'm sure. And we have BOTH responded to something we haven't liked in here. And so has everyone who didn't like the original topic of this thread.


Very good. Here is a cookie.

So really ... again, i fail to understand how you keep quoting me these rules. I know why i wrote them in the first place. I also know how much flexibility i gave these rules and how i want them exercized. However, you have a clear interpretation of how they should be read and executed too, yet you're refusing to stand down and isntead asking for this thread to be closed.

You're being quite stubborn ..... seriously .. if you want this drama to end, back away. i would have this morning and continued to just be my crazy stupid self posting things that had nothing or little to do with this thread. cept that little statement regarding a little friend of mine has left me feeling a tad bit crazy and honestly, i could keep going for days if required.









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I've attacked your character?

I've said nothing but nice things about you. I told you before, and I'll say it again, I still think you're a valuable poster, who brings a lot to the forum, and does a lot for the forum. I've said it before in this thread, and I'll say it again now.

The problem is, you apparently lack good judgment, you don't realize the weight of the things you're accusing me of, and you seem to not care about anyone but yourself.

This thread is open because, aside for the attacks YOU are making, there is nothing really going on that I feel really violates rules. And as I said in this thread before, double accounts are frowned upon, and if you want your name back, you can have it.


I'm sorry, but saying I have a "lack of good judgement" IS attacking my character. Posting private matters, that I never said you could about me, IS attacking my character. All I posted about you was to stop "hitting' on me. Stalker wasn't brought up until later on. Now, when I post private matters (even when I get approval from the other person) it is frowned upon. And if I'd post mockery threads, they would be frowned upon. Don't deny this, you and I both know it's true.

I could care less about a screen name. Im THIS close to saying who created that account, in a hateful, spiteful way, but I won't. I decided to find out who it was, because if it was a poster who is well liked, nothing more than deleting the account would have been done, which is what has been done. But imagine if Mav created a double account and was caught. :whaa: But not miss insightful, bitch.

You have a member who's saying they are offended by all of this. A member who is suggesting an end to it. A member who thinks all of this is wrong . And a member who is requesting their thread be locked, a thread that has offended them. A thread where that poster has broken soooo many rules. Yet you ignore it.

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getluv wrote:
bABA wrote:
getluv wrote:
bABA wrote:
getluv wrote:
i'm jealous about all the attention Corpse is getting atm. i bet shes fucking enjoying this. Malboro light on the left hand and a nice glass of red in her right hand.

i want in.

baba, i accuse u of cybaraping me 3 seconds ago. it was traumatic.


i did do that. so i don't really know what you want me to say ...


is it rape if you enjoyed it?


i may have to do this once more to be sure. Ready?


the first time was better. so i think the 2nd time was rape.

what do you call it when someone gets raped twice in 5 minutes. Box just raped me. It's not gang-rape or tag-team rape because u know, its cybarape.


2 seperate incidences.


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bABA wrote:
getluv wrote:
bABA wrote:
getluv wrote:
bABA wrote:
getluv wrote:
i'm jealous about all the attention Corpse is getting atm. i bet shes fucking enjoying this. Malboro light on the left hand and a nice glass of red in her right hand.

i want in.

baba, i accuse u of cybaraping me 3 seconds ago. it was traumatic.


i did do that. so i don't really know what you want me to say ...


is it rape if you enjoyed it?


i may have to do this once more to be sure. Ready?


the first time was better. so i think the 2nd time was rape.

what do you call it when someone gets raped twice in 5 minutes. Box just raped me. It's not gang-rape or tag-team rape because u know, its cybarape.


2 seperate incidences.


i'd like to report a crime.


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I've attacked your character?

I've said nothing but nice things about you. I told you before, and I'll say it again, I still think you're a valuable poster, who brings a lot to the forum, and does a lot for the forum. I've said it before in this thread, and I'll say it again now.

The problem is, you apparently lack good judgment, you don't realize the weight of the things you're accusing me of, and you seem to not care about anyone but yourself.

This thread is open because, aside for the attacks YOU are making, there is nothing really going on that I feel really violates rules. And as I said in this thread before, double accounts are frowned upon, and if you want your name back, you can have it.


I'm sorry, but saying I have a "lack of good judgement" IS attacking my character. Posting private matters, that I never said you could about me, IS attacking my character. All I posted about you was to stop "hitting' on me. Stalker wasn't brought up until later on. Now, when I post private matters (even when I get approval from the other person) it is frowned upon. And if I'd post mockery threads, they would be frowned upon. Don't deny this, you and I both know it's true.

I could care less about a screen name. Im THIS close to saying who created that account, in a hateful, spiteful way, but I won't. I decided to find out who it was, because if it was a poster who is well liked, nothing more than deleting the account would have been done, which is what has been done. But imagine if Mav created a double account and was caught. :whaa: But not miss insightful, bitch.

You have a member who's saying they are offended by all of this. A member who is suggesting an end to it. A member who thinks all of this is wrong . And a member who is requesting their thread be locked, a thread that has offended them. A thread where that poster has broken soooo many rules. Yet you ignore it.


I'm happy if you say the name. its not going to change anything. like i said, unless that person posts and uses both accounts, i ain't doing nothing. cause if i did, i have about 5 posteres here (Michael, Andaroo, Zennier, Roid and Inso) that i'll have to ban. I'm in no mood to do so.


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and now she turns to rules to counter everything



This isn't a healthy public converstation at ALL. This is having a negative effect on the forum. It is NOT being addressed (and I'm the one who has offered to end it of all people).

Word has it that people are quite enjoying this thread .. maybe not you. its spawned some hit threads as well.


Now, the only thing in this part that needs to be addressed in the underline bit. Because I'm doubting anything was done to you know who for that double account, which was clearly meant to be for the sake of fun. And people encouraging this are just as bad.

Amazing. Why just the underline bit? Cause it works in your favor? Frankly, like you yourself earlier said, things won't bother people if they don't get bothered by things, you really shouldn't be complaining about it.


So saying that one should or should not be offended is up to NO BODY to say, but the person that feels they were offended.

yet when everyone here tells you how they're offended by your pictures, your posts and everything, you tell others to mind their own business and they have no business liking/disliking those things. Again, you're asking me to apply rules when they somehow work in your favor.

You have attacked my character, I have attacked your character. I have attacked your looks, and all of this has NOTHING to do with the TOPIC of this thread.

I've also attacked people in my threads when i tell them how they feel and they volunteer for it. By opening this thread, you've volunteered for no holds barred comments ... and even if one says the thread i spawned due to this is meant to be funny, i've opened myself up for personal attacks as well which i really shouldn't be crying about if thrown at me. Personally, you've attacked back people which you never promised to begin with as far as very daunting accusations .. really ... if you want me implementing these rules in the strictest of sense, you would have already been warned, banned for a week, then 2 and then maybe a month. But we're nice people and we let things go quite a bit.

11. Member input: Please advise the moderators and administrators of the site of your concerns. This may be regarding the behavior of another member, problems with the site or anything that may concern the forum directly.11. Member input: Please advise the moderators and administrators of the site of your concerns. This may be regarding the behavior of another member, problems with the site or anything that may concern the forum directly.

I've been doing this for the past few pages.


Thank you for your input. It has been invaluable.

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If you are suspicious someone is just being a blatant obnoxious spammer, or if someone has excessive use of language that makes you uncomfortable...OR if the content of a message is particularly upsetting to you:

1. Do not respond directly to it in the thread. This is what leaps threads at the top of the forum instead of sinking to the bottom. If it is a thread you do not like, just do not comment in it. If it is a post in an interesting thread, do not respond to it, respond to the posts pre and/or anticeding it as though the comment was not there.

The content of many of your posts have offended/upset me. Just like mine have to you I'm sure. And we have BOTH responded to something we haven't liked in here. And so has everyone who didn't like the original topic of this thread.


Very good. Here is a cookie.

So really ... again, i fail to understand how you keep quoting me these rules. I know why i wrote them in the first place. I also know how much flexibility i gave these rules and how i want them exercized. However, you have a clear interpretation of how they should be read and executed too, yet you're refusing to stand down and isntead asking for this thread to be closed.

You're being quite stubborn ..... seriously .. if you want this drama to end, back away. i would have this morning and continued to just be my crazy stupid self posting things that had nothing or little to do with this thread. cept that little statement regarding a little friend of mine has left me feeling a tad bit crazy and honestly, i could keep going for days if required.









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So, as long as the majority are pleased, and one member is being hurt over it, it's okay? I mean really, if that is what KJ is about......

When people said they took offense to the pictures I posted, what did I do? I LISTENED. I created another thread outside of the first Photo Thread. I reach solutions.

And making spiteful, harmful remarks to me? Who the fuck does that to someone who is offended by all of this?

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I ignore it because you started it, you brought it all upon yourself, and I don't want people to think I'm trying to brush this under the rug or make it go away. Because I'm not. I think your accusations are irresponsible, hurtful, ignorant and just plain wrong. I also KNOW that you never took any of the steps a logical person would take before making this kind of accusation, because you didn't care about anyone but yourself. You were hurt, and wanted to hurt someone else, so I get dragged around.

You should have talked to me Corpse, you didn't, you brought all of this on yourself, you started it, so excuse me if I don't have much sympathy now that you don't like where it ended up.

I do think you lack judgment, I think your actions show it, and I don't think in any way anyone is attacking you.

As for double accounts, I don't care who made it, noone would have gotten banned for it. Anyone who knows me, knows my Admin style, knows that for the truth.

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As for double accounts, I don't care who made it, noone would have gotten banned for it. Anyone who knows me, knows my Admin style, knows that for the truth.


Now hear this. Thats eagle saying it. If you dare make a second account, I'll personally burn you .. in a fire ... cause thats how you usually burn people ... in a fire.


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As for double accounts, I don't care who made it, noone would have gotten banned for it. Anyone who knows me, knows my Admin style, knows that for the truth.


I try everything to get banned including burning your cat and hosting occult sessions to summon demons from the toilet while you are on it, and STILL you don't exercise your power!!

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