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BJ
Killing With Kindness
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Riggs27 wrote: Yes, definately.
explain your self. why is it ok to hate a person ot thing you have never seen or met :?:
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:23 pm |
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BJ
Killing With Kindness
Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2004 8:57 pm Posts: 25035 Location: Anchorage,Alaska
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Jon Lyrik wrote: I hate nearly everyone outside of my family. And there even people in my family I despise.
As for things, well...
BTW-on Vin Diesel, appearantly he's a very nice guy in person and friendly to fans. Bad actor, though. Kinda like Keanu Reeves-bad actor, good man.
Why do you hate almost everyone outside your family and even some in your family :?: I feel that despise s a word that is just as powerful as hate.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:25 pm |
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Appy
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I think it is very possible to hate someone you never met or really have ever know. I hate my birth mother.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:31 pm |
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BJ
Killing With Kindness
Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2004 8:57 pm Posts: 25035 Location: Anchorage,Alaska
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I realise that to hate someone only destroys you, That other person may never know that you hate them. And when you do tell them do you realy think they will care :?: I also think that to hate someone does not affect that person in the least all it does is desroys you. It turns you in to a person that not very many would like. Hate only builds up and it can be very unhealthy. As I said before it is ok to hate someone or something with a damb good reason, but you dont have to hate that person forever all it will do is make you seem like the jurk overy time you talk about how much ou hate that person. i think that all hate does is destroys a person.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:32 pm |
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Appy
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BJ wrote: I realise that to hate someone only destroys you, That other person may never know that you hate them. And when you do tell them do you realy think they will care :?: I also think that to hate someone does not affect that person in the least all it does is desroys you. It turns you in to a person that not very many would like. Hate only builds up and it can be very unhealthy. As I said before it is ok to hate someone or something with a damb good reason, but you dont have to hate that person forever all it will do is make you seem like the jurk overy time you talk about how much ou hate that person. i think that all hate does is destroys a person.
my mother lit me on fire when I was 2yrs old..I think I have more then enough right to hate her.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:38 pm |
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Maximus
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Appy wrote: BJ wrote: I realise that to hate someone only destroys you, That other person may never know that you hate them. And when you do tell them do you realy think they will care :?: I also think that to hate someone does not affect that person in the least all it does is desroys you. It turns you in to a person that not very many would like. Hate only builds up and it can be very unhealthy. As I said before it is ok to hate someone or something with a damb good reason, but you dont have to hate that person forever all it will do is make you seem like the jurk overy time you talk about how much ou hate that person. i think that all hate does is destroys a person. my mother lit me on fire when I was 2yrs old..I think I have more then enough right to hate her.
thats so sad. 
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:38 pm |
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BJ
Killing With Kindness
Joined: Mon Oct 11, 2004 8:57 pm Posts: 25035 Location: Anchorage,Alaska
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Unknown wrote: I think to answer this question, one must define their own version of hate. We all throw the word around rather casually with different degrees of meaning. I 'hate' beats. Now,,if a can of beats comes into my house(because someone buys them), hating them as I do, should I take the can and smash it off the floor stomping it to bits??? No...So my level of hate is rather small for beats. Someone brought up 'a person that murdered your family' as someone to 'hate'.. If this person entered my house, yes, I'd kill them with hate as my driving force....I work with some people I dont really like for various reasons. Things they say, ways they do things, etc.. Do I hate them? No. But in casual conversation if someone asked "Hey, what do you thing of Bob and Joe over there?" I may say(out of habit) "O, I hate those two". I really dont hate them, its just a figure of speech. I think 'hate' is one of those words we throw around in langauge not taking into account its real meaning....Reminds me of another word that we dont really think about.....Love...
Now, I'd "love" to share more of my thoughts on the subject, but I "hate" to tell you I have to go....... :wink:
Best reply I have read. Thanks for your honest answer Unknown :wink: I agree with you wholely, especialy on the park about if a person breaks into your home.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:40 pm |
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Appy
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so I would say no hate does not destroy you. Cause I live a happy pretty normal life. If you let hate rule you then yes you have problems, I don't let it rule me.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:41 pm |
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Tyler
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BJ wrote: Why do you hate almost everyone outside your family and even some in your family :?: I feel that despise s a word that is just as powerful as hate.
I don't like associating with people. I like to lock myself up in my room. People are bad news to me.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:42 pm |
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Jeff
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Jon Lyrik wrote: BJ wrote: Why do you hate almost everyone outside your family and even some in your family :?: I feel that despise s a word that is just as powerful as hate. I don't like associating with people. I like to lock myself up in my room. People are bad news to me.
I lock myself up in my room too. I prefer peace and quiet. That doesn't mean I hate my family though.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:45 pm |
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Appy
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I talk to family when they talk to me 
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:47 pm |
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matatonio
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Joined: Fri Oct 15, 2004 11:56 pm Posts: 26066 Location: In good ol' Mexico
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when im extremly mad about something or someone, i just close my mouth becouse i know im going to say very bad, hateful thing!
i just keep my mouth shot!...and go away!
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:47 pm |
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BJ
Killing With Kindness
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Appy wrote: so I would say no hate does not destroy you. Cause I live a happy pretty normal life. If you let hate rule you then yes you have problems, I don't let it rule me.
ok great exlpanation I like it, but do you plan to hate your mother forever :?:
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:49 pm |
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Appy
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BJ wrote: Appy wrote: so I would say no hate does not destroy you. Cause I live a happy pretty normal life. If you let hate rule you then yes you have problems, I don't let it rule me. ok great exlpanation I like it, but do you plan to hate your mother forever :?:
I don't know...truthfully I go through different feelings. At times I don't care and then other times dark rage but since i'm very good at controling my anger I don't let it lose or let it rule me. I've had alot of years to deal with this. I get asked alot if I ever plan on looking for my birth mom? I truthfully say "No" cause the last thing I want is to find out how deep this hate goes.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:57 pm |
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BJ
Killing With Kindness
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Appy wrote: BJ wrote: Appy wrote: so I would say no hate does not destroy you. Cause I live a happy pretty normal life. If you let hate rule you then yes you have problems, I don't let it rule me. ok great exlpanation I like it, but do you plan to hate your mother forever :?: I don't know...truthfully I go through different feelings. At times I don't care and then other times dark rage but since i'm very good at controling my anger I don't let it lose or let it rule me. I've had alot of years to deal with this. I get asked alot if I ever plan on looking for my birth mom? I truthfully say "No" cause the last thing I want is to find out how deep this hate goes.
fare enough thankyou for your honest reply 8)
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 3:59 pm |
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Jeff
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matatonio wrote: when im extremly mad about something or someone, i just close my mouth becouse i know im going to say very bad, hateful thing!
i just keep my mouth shot!...and go away!
Yeah, I end up saying things that I later regret most often. I try to keep my mouth shut now.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 4:00 pm |
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Appy
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BJ wrote: Appy wrote: BJ wrote: Appy wrote: so I would say no hate does not destroy you. Cause I live a happy pretty normal life. If you let hate rule you then yes you have problems, I don't let it rule me. ok great exlpanation I like it, but do you plan to hate your mother forever :?: I don't know...truthfully I go through different feelings. At times I don't care and then other times dark rage but since i'm very good at controling my anger I don't let it lose or let it rule me. I've had alot of years to deal with this. I get asked alot if I ever plan on looking for my birth mom? I truthfully say "No" cause the last thing I want is to find out how deep this hate goes. fare enough thankyou for your honest reply 8)
no problem.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 4:01 pm |
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Tyler
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 I'm sorry to hear about what your birth mother did to you, Appy. That's terrible.
Quote: I lock myself up in my room too. I prefer peace and quiet. That doesn't mean I hate my family though.
I do it mostly to shut away from people, although peace and quiet is good.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 4:05 pm |
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matatonio
Teh Mexican
Joined: Fri Oct 15, 2004 11:56 pm Posts: 26066 Location: In good ol' Mexico
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RogueCommander wrote: matatonio wrote: when im extremly mad about something or someone, i just close my mouth becouse i know im going to say very bad, hateful thing!
i just keep my mouth shot!...and go away! Yeah, I end up saying things that I later regret most often. I try to keep my mouth shut now.
oh no, i dont regret anything i say, i just dont want to hurt the other person 
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 4:06 pm |
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Appy
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[quote="Jon Lyrik"]:( I'm sorry to hear about what your birth mother did to you, Appy. That's terrible.quote]
no reason you should be sorry. you did not do it to me.
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 4:10 pm |
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Terminator1997
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"Fear leads to anger....anger leads to hate....hate....leads to suffering!" -- Master Yoda
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 4:12 pm |
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Appy
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Terminator1997 wrote: "Fear leads to anger....anger leads to hate....hate....leads to suffering!" -- Master Yoda
fuck yoda 
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 4:12 pm |
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Terminator1997
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Appy wrote: Terminator1997 wrote: "Fear leads to anger....anger leads to hate....hate....leads to suffering!" -- Master Yoda fuck yoda 
lol 
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 4:12 pm |
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BJ
Killing With Kindness
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Terminator1997 wrote: "Fear leads to anger....anger leads to hate....hate....leads to suffering!" -- Master Yoda
Fear is the path of the dark side....... that was the begining 8) anyway that as the best line from TPM 8)
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Tue Dec 28, 2004 4:14 pm |
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Terminator1997
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BJ wrote: Terminator1997 wrote: "Fear leads to anger....anger leads to hate....hate....leads to suffering!" -- Master Yoda Fear is the path of the dark side....... that was the begining 8) anyway that as the best line from TPM 8)
yeah, it was a great line 
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