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You have no right to call yourself a middle child. you're one of many middle children

Not true! In my generation, there are only three of us. I grew up as the middle of three kids, even though I did have 2 much older siblings. But, different generation!

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You have no right to call yourself a middle child. you're one of many middle children

Not true! In my generation, there are only three of us. I grew up as the middle of three kids, even though I did have 2 much older siblings. But, different generation!


Murdering family members again I see :er:

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Best. Thread. Ever.

Last 4 pages really took it to another level

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Degenerating to a personal assault on my looks? Really!?

Look Corpse, I'm ashamed of nothing I've ever said to you. I am who I am. I'm open, I don't mind talking about anything, and I like that about myself. I also try and help others, listen, and offer advice. I've done that with you many times, and I like that about myself too.

But this all goes back to what Ripper and others have said about you in the past: If you don't want people looking at you in a sexual connotation, stop posting pictures of yourself with no shirt on, and a finger over your nipple! Otherwise, you're just kind of asking for it.

As for me being stalkerish or creepy, again, I find that rude. Maybe you never 'got' me, and that's fine, but I don't IM you every day. When I do IM you, it's almost 100% related to the site, or a question asking for feedback. We talk on average like once a month. I assume the 'other poster' is Batamanda, and again, I've talked to her like once, so I have no idea how I'm giving off this stalker like impression, but hey, you guys can think whatever you like, it's a free country.


No, you have listened and everything, yes, but everything came down to a "wait and see what happens" talk. Now, if you wanted to stop talking about whatever it was, you could have said so. If not, and you believed in the "wait" thing, yeah, it just never worked at all. And it would have never worked, especially on here.

Ironic you mention Ripper in your example, isnt it? ;)

I don't care for people to look at me, I never complained over that. I am complaining about you doing it now. Because I don't want you to anymore for a few reasons I've already mentioned. Ask yourself this: "If someone was indeed a stalker, and they were being accused of it out in the open, would they admit to it?" No. Now, you could have been playing around with all the stalkerish comments, yes, but I would have never known unless I trusted or knew you. There was just no way of telling. Starting a mockery thread (being an admin and all too) about it, shows to me that you are trying to make this all a joke, and something pointless. When someone accuses you of something like that, I'd either admit to it, or deny it WITH detailed explanations. And let the accuser then decide on what they want to believe, whether it be right or wrong. It's something that is a problem online (and not), a serious problem. Not some topic to go around mocking, or poking fun at. It's not something to say "Think What You Like", and just pretend it's a meaningless discussion. And I as a user, and someone you used to talk to once in awhile, have a problem with that. So....what kind of example would it give others who may have a similar problem with somebody on this site?

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Degenerating to a personal assault on my looks? Really!?

Look Corpse, I'm ashamed of nothing I've ever said to you. I am who I am. I'm open, I don't mind talking about anything, and I like that about myself. I also try and help others, listen, and offer advice. I've done that with you many times, and I like that about myself too.

But this all goes back to what Ripper and others have said about you in the past: If you don't want people looking at you in a sexual connotation, stop posting pictures of yourself with no shirt on, and a finger over your nipple! Otherwise, you're just kind of asking for it.

As for me being stalkerish or creepy, again, I find that rude. Maybe you never 'got' me, and that's fine, but I don't IM you every day. When I do IM you, it's almost 100% related to the site, or a question asking for feedback. We talk on average like once a month. I assume the 'other poster' is Batamanda, and again, I've talked to her like once, so I have no idea how I'm giving off this stalker like impression, but hey, you guys can think whatever you like, it's a free country.


No, you have listened and everything, yes, but everything came down to a "wait and see what happens" talk. Now, if you wanted to stop talking about whatever it was, you could have said so. If not, and you believed in the "wait" thing, yeah, it just never worked at all. And it would have never worked, especially on here.

Ironic you mention Ripper in your example, isnt it? ;)

I don't care for people to look at me, I never complained over that. I am complaining about you doing it now. Because I don't want you to anymore for a few reasons I've already mentioned. Ask yourself this: "If someone was indeed a stalker, and they were being accused of it out in the open, would they admit to it?" No. Now, you could have been playing around with all the stalkerish comments, yes, but I would have never known unless I trusted or knew you. There was just no way of telling. Starting a mockery thread (being an admin and all too) about it, shows to me that you are trying to make this all a joke, and something pointless. When someone accuses you of something like that, I'd either admit to it, or deny it WITH detailed explanations. And let the accuser then decide on what they want to believe, whether it be right or wrong. It's something that is a problem online (and not), a serious problem. Not some topic to go around mocking, or poking fun at. It's not something to say "Think What You Like", and just pretend it's a meaningless discussion. And I as a user, and someone you used to talk to once in awhile, have a problem with that. So....what kind of example would it give others who may have a similar problem with somebody on this site?


i don't know how anyone can take you seriously with purple text. thats just me.

anyway for someone to stalk you they would really have to have a really dried up sex life. But i wouldn't put it past you that you seduced these "people" to cyberbate with. Tony is married you know, with a dog and IKEA furniture.


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I've been somewhat on your side here, but COME ON. You can't expect anyone to believe that.

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What am I supposed to do? I'm being accused of something I didn't do, something you apparently took the completely wrong way, and never bothered to talk to me about.

So yeah, I make light of it, it's that or get really upset. But come on, a stalker, really?

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This is the most wtf thread of all-time. I almost can't believe it's real. Maybe it's all a super weird, unfunny joke?

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What am I supposed to do? I'm being accused of something I didn't do, something you apparently took the completely wrong way, and never bothered to talk to me about.

So yeah, I make light of it, it's that or get really upset. But come on, a stalker, really?



First thing you do is to stop thiking about yourself, and about how you never meant this, never did that, etc. And quit blaming me for the problem. I'm not blaming you. I've said that there was no way of me knowing for sure. So I'm asking for something more in depth about how you never meant to give off the impression of a stalker. Having a girlfriend doesn't count. I asked you many times if you were a stalker on AIM, and the "joking" type responses never helped me dismiss the possible idea. Because it's not a joking matter. It shouldn't be to make light of it or get really upset. An explaination on your side would be good, leading to perhaps PM messages or an AIM convo? And locking this thread? I mean, I can see that is the appropriate decision to take in a situation like this, and what do I have...all sorts of things wrong in my head? Stuff like this doesn't need to be chatted about in a public thread. So I'll be the first to offer to end it by either taking it to PM or AIM, or by simpling ignoring it and never bringing it up again. Which means also means any mention, or mockery of it in other threads should also be stopped. 1. I don't take kindly to the mockery. And nor should you of a user. 2. It only fuels the entire situation.

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This is the most wtf thread of all-time. I almost can't believe it's real. Maybe it's all a super weird, unfunny joke?




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Well Corpse, if you didn't want this talked about in public, why did you post it? I just responded because I was being accused of something, no other reason. I tend to be a laid back, easy going guy, but what the heck, if someone calls me a stalker, I'm going to call them out on it!

Corpse, we've had like 4 really detailed conversations online. That's honestly about it. We've had maybe 15-20 conversations total, most site related. Doesn't a stalker, I don't know, stalk? Wouldn't I be like, IM'ing you constantly? Wouldn't you, I don't know, stop responding?

Honestly, did me IM'ing you asking you to look at a site, asking for feedback on bonanza, did these things lead you to believe that I just had to talk to you? I'm sorry if that gave you that impression, I just wanted feedback. I do it to many people, I'll take you off that list.

But I don't want to talk to you in private, because I'm afraid you'll start thinking I'm in love with you, stalking you, or something to that nature. I honestly have no clue where this is coming from, it's freaking me out, and I just want to back away slowly until I'm far enough away that I can turn my back and run.

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Well Corpse, if you didn't want this talked about in public, why did you post it? I just responded because I was being accused of something, no other reason. I tend to be a laid back, easy going guy, but what the heck, if someone calls me a stalker, I'm going to call them out on it!

Corpse, we've had like 4 really detailed conversations online. That's honestly about it. We've had maybe 15-20 conversations total, most site related. Doesn't a stalker, I don't know, stalk? Wouldn't I be like, IM'ing you constantly? Wouldn't you, I don't know, stop responding?

Honestly, did me IM'ing you asking you to look at a site, asking for feedback on bonanza, did these things lead you to believe that I just had to talk to you? I'm sorry if that gave you that impression, I just wanted feedback. I do it to many people, I'll take you off that list.

But I don't want to talk to you in private, because I'm afraid you'll start thinking I'm in love with you, stalking you, or something to that nature. I honestly have no clue where this is coming from, it's freaking me out, and I just want to back away slowly until I'm far enough away that I can turn my back and run.



The original topic of this thread wasn't something I cared about being talked about in public, because like you said, why else would I have started it? What I do care about is our discussion starting a few pages back. Because it's not something that needs to be seen by everyone, and it's obvious it needs locked. And I'm suggesting you lock it (and any mockery threads related to this discussion because I AM offended by them) and to take it to AIM or something, but you don't want to do the latter, so ignoring it forever is the only thing left to do. It's obvious this will go nowhere anytime soon, so I think that's the best thing to do. As do many members here I'm sure.

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Well Corpse, if you didn't want this talked about in public, why did you post it? I just responded because I was being accused of something, no other reason. I tend to be a laid back, easy going guy, but what the heck, if someone calls me a stalker, I'm going to call them out on it!

Corpse, we've had like 4 really detailed conversations online. That's honestly about it. We've had maybe 15-20 conversations total, most site related. Doesn't a stalker, I don't know, stalk? Wouldn't I be like, IM'ing you constantly? Wouldn't you, I don't know, stop responding?

Honestly, did me IM'ing you asking you to look at a site, asking for feedback on bonanza, did these things lead you to believe that I just had to talk to you? I'm sorry if that gave you that impression, I just wanted feedback. I do it to many people, I'll take you off that list.

But I don't want to talk to you in private, because I'm afraid you'll start thinking I'm in love with you, stalking you, or something to that nature. I honestly have no clue where this is coming from, it's freaking me out, and I just want to back away slowly until I'm far enough away that I can turn my back and run.



The original topic of this thread wasn't something I cared about being talked about in public, because like you said, why else would I have started it? What I do care about is our discussion starting a few pages back. Because it's not something that needs to be seen by everyone, and it's obvious it needs locked. And I'm suggesting you lock it (and any mockery threads related to this discussion because I AM offended by them) and to take it to AIM or something, but you don't want to do the latter, so ignoring it forever is the only thing left to do. It's obvious this will go nowhere anytime soon, so I think that's the best thing to do. As do many members here I'm sure.


THE HELL!?!?!?!??!?!

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Quit acting like a little girl who is gonna pick up her ball and go home because she's not getting her way.

Look, most people on this forum like you. Most people, like myself, feel you bring a lot to the forum. There are others, who don't agree. They don't like how open you are with your body, they don't like the way you seek attention, and the list goes on.

You do seek attention!

Stop apologizing for it, there's nothing wrong with it.

Yet you make a thread like this, ask for opinions, and then you feel the need to explain to the person complaining why things are the way they are. Arsi and juju have a point in this regard. If you ask for opinions:

- Take them.
- Change if you find them valid.
- Ignore them otherwise.
- If you don't understand, ask for more information.

That's all people want, they don't want you to continue explaining things away. You say you don't care what people think, but it's so obvious that you DO. If you didn't care, then why not just ignore the comments, or better yet, learn from them.

Life isn't perfect, the world isn't fair, just do your best to show everyone respect, even if they don't deserve it, and leave the rest to fate.


That was eagle's reply. To you directly. Straight to the point. Exactly in the same nature and tone that everyone else is replying in.

you ... YOU!! You brought up that whole stalker shit! Now YOU"RE saying that shit should have never gotten out of hand! The man defends himself!

Man ... if there is one person who absolves themselves from not just all responsibility for things but instead finds a way to plug it on another person .... I haven't found one that takes it to a level like you do. I'm starting to see why BOf went down. Thank God most of us here don't buy into your whinyness.

Man, for someone whose accusing another of being a stalker, you sure do want to talk to them even more in private.

I like eagle's thread. I'm keeping it open. Its fun. I also like the other dislike/like threads. they're great.


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bABA wrote:
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Well Corpse, if you didn't want this talked about in public, why did you post it? I just responded because I was being accused of something, no other reason. I tend to be a laid back, easy going guy, but what the heck, if someone calls me a stalker, I'm going to call them out on it!

Corpse, we've had like 4 really detailed conversations online. That's honestly about it. We've had maybe 15-20 conversations total, most site related. Doesn't a stalker, I don't know, stalk? Wouldn't I be like, IM'ing you constantly? Wouldn't you, I don't know, stop responding?

Honestly, did me IM'ing you asking you to look at a site, asking for feedback on bonanza, did these things lead you to believe that I just had to talk to you? I'm sorry if that gave you that impression, I just wanted feedback. I do it to many people, I'll take you off that list.

But I don't want to talk to you in private, because I'm afraid you'll start thinking I'm in love with you, stalking you, or something to that nature. I honestly have no clue where this is coming from, it's freaking me out, and I just want to back away slowly until I'm far enough away that I can turn my back and run.



The original topic of this thread wasn't something I cared about being talked about in public, because like you said, why else would I have started it? What I do care about is our discussion starting a few pages back. Because it's not something that needs to be seen by everyone, and it's obvious it needs locked. And I'm suggesting you lock it (and any mockery threads related to this discussion because I AM offended by them) and to take it to AIM or something, but you don't want to do the latter, so ignoring it forever is the only thing left to do. It's obvious this will go nowhere anytime soon, so I think that's the best thing to do. As do many members here I'm sure.


THE HELL!?!?!?!??!?!

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Quit acting like a little girl who is gonna pick up her ball and go home because she's not getting her way.

Look, most people on this forum like you. Most people, like myself, feel you bring a lot to the forum. There are others, who don't agree. They don't like how open you are with your body, they don't like the way you seek attention, and the list goes on.

You do seek attention!

Stop apologizing for it, there's nothing wrong with it.

Yet you make a thread like this, ask for opinions, and then you feel the need to explain to the person complaining why things are the way they are. Arsi and juju have a point in this regard. If you ask for opinions:

- Take them.
- Change if you find them valid.
- Ignore them otherwise.
- If you don't understand, ask for more information.

That's all people want, they don't want you to continue explaining things away. You say you don't care what people think, but it's so obvious that you DO. If you didn't care, then why not just ignore the comments, or better yet, learn from them.

Life isn't perfect, the world isn't fair, just do your best to show everyone respect, even if they don't deserve it, and leave the rest to fate.


That was eagle's reply. To you directly. Straight to the point. Exactly in the same nature and tone that everyone else is replying in.

you ... YOU!! You brought up that whole stalker shit! Now YOU"RE saying that shit should have never gotten out of hand! The man defends himself!

Man ... if there is one person who absolves themselves from not just all responsibility for things but instead finds a way to plug it on another person .... I haven't found one that takes it to a level like you do. I'm starting to see why BOf went down. Thank God most of us here don't buy into your whinyness.

Man, for someone whose accusing another of being a stalker, you sure do want to talk to them even more in private.

I like eagle's thread. I'm keeping it open. Its fun. I also like the other dislike/like threads. they're great.



Yes I'm saying it should have never got out of hand, and I am taking some responsiblity for it going out of hand. So I don't see where you "if there is one person who absolves themselves from not just all responsibility for things but instead finds a way to plug it on another person" is coming from. The first step Eagle should have taken when I responded to him was to ask me to take it to AIM or PM's, not on the board. So I decided to suggest this myself now. Why do you think I'm offering to stop it? Like I normally do? But this never works.

Eagle's four things he mentioned I should done were exactly what I was doing in this thread. I took some of them. None were posted that suggested a change. I ignored some of them. And I asked for more information on some of them. But, when I did this, what did everyone say? You are asking for more information because you want more attention.

What kind of message does not locking this thread, which has offended me, and other posters here, and the ones related to it (Im not talking about the dislike/like threads) send to other posters?

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I think it should be left open corpse.

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It offended you?

So my response is supposed to be: I get called a publicly a stalker > I let it slide publicly, talk to you about it privately? I'm just supposed to accept that?

Your offended?! Hold heck Corpse, your trying to hog tie me and drag me through the mud here, and I don't really even know why!

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I'm not going to attack you. But ignore it's me that has a problem here for a second. If someone else, or you, have been offended by this thread and the mockery threads would you want it locked? I know that there have been threads locked because people said they were offended, or because of convo's going on, much like this one, that have no place on a public board.

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thread of the year should not get locked.


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It offended you?

So my response is supposed to be: I get called a publicly a stalker > I let it slide publicly, talk to you about it privately? I'm just supposed to accept that?

Your offended?! Hold heck Corpse, your trying to hog tie me and drag me through the mud here, and I don't really even know why!


I am not trying to "hog tie you and drag you through the mud". My very first response to you was basically a "don't talk, or ask anything of me again". Did I offend you too? Because if I did, you are part of the "others being offended" in this thread.

What's the point of continuously arguing over it in this thread? We know it will go nowhere, with both sides trying to say they are right and the other is wrong. So that's why I offered another solution. This is being handled wrong on all levels.

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Well Corpse, if you didn't want this talked about in public, why did you post it? I just responded because I was being accused of something, no other reason. I tend to be a laid back, easy going guy, but what the heck, if someone calls me a stalker, I'm going to call them out on it!

Corpse, we've had like 4 really detailed conversations online. That's honestly about it. We've had maybe 15-20 conversations total, most site related. Doesn't a stalker, I don't know, stalk? Wouldn't I be like, IM'ing you constantly? Wouldn't you, I don't know, stop responding?

Honestly, did me IM'ing you asking you to look at a site, asking for feedback on bonanza, did these things lead you to believe that I just had to talk to you? I'm sorry if that gave you that impression, I just wanted feedback. I do it to many people, I'll take you off that list.

But I don't want to talk to you in private, because I'm afraid you'll start thinking I'm in love with you, stalking you, or something to that nature. I honestly have no clue where this is coming from, it's freaking me out, and I just want to back away slowly until I'm far enough away that I can turn my back and run.



The original topic of this thread wasn't something I cared about being talked about in public, because like you said, why else would I have started it? What I do care about is our discussion starting a few pages back. Because it's not something that needs to be seen by everyone, and it's obvious it needs locked. And I'm suggesting you lock it (and any mockery threads related to this discussion because I AM offended by them) and to take it to AIM or something, but you don't want to do the latter, so ignoring it forever is the only thing left to do. It's obvious this will go nowhere anytime soon, so I think that's the best thing to do. As do many members here I'm sure.


THE HELL!?!?!?!??!?!

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Quit acting like a little girl who is gonna pick up her ball and go home because she's not getting her way.

Look, most people on this forum like you. Most people, like myself, feel you bring a lot to the forum. There are others, who don't agree. They don't like how open you are with your body, they don't like the way you seek attention, and the list goes on.

You do seek attention!

Stop apologizing for it, there's nothing wrong with it.

Yet you make a thread like this, ask for opinions, and then you feel the need to explain to the person complaining why things are the way they are. Arsi and juju have a point in this regard. If you ask for opinions:

- Take them.
- Change if you find them valid.
- Ignore them otherwise.
- If you don't understand, ask for more information.

That's all people want, they don't want you to continue explaining things away. You say you don't care what people think, but it's so obvious that you DO. If you didn't care, then why not just ignore the comments, or better yet, learn from them.

Life isn't perfect, the world isn't fair, just do your best to show everyone respect, even if they don't deserve it, and leave the rest to fate.


That was eagle's reply. To you directly. Straight to the point. Exactly in the same nature and tone that everyone else is replying in.

you ... YOU!! You brought up that whole stalker shit! Now YOU"RE saying that shit should have never gotten out of hand! The man defends himself!

Man ... if there is one person who absolves themselves from not just all responsibility for things but instead finds a way to plug it on another person .... I haven't found one that takes it to a level like you do. I'm starting to see why BOf went down. Thank God most of us here don't buy into your whinyness.

Man, for someone whose accusing another of being a stalker, you sure do want to talk to them even more in private.

I like eagle's thread. I'm keeping it open. Its fun. I also like the other dislike/like threads. they're great.



Yes I'm saying it should have never got out of hand, and I am taking some responsiblity for it going out of hand. So I don't see where you "if there is one person who absolves themselves from not just all responsibility for things but instead finds a way to plug it on another person" is coming from. The first step Eagle should have taken when I responded to him was to ask me to take it to AIM or PM's, not on the board. So I decided to suggest this myself now. Why do you think I'm offering to stop it? Like I normally do? But this never works.

Eagle's four things he mentioned I should done were exactly what I was doing in this thread. I took some of them. None were posted that suggested a change. I ignored some of them. And I asked for more information on some of them. But, when I did this, what did everyone say? You are asking for more information because you want more attention.

What kind of message does not locking this thread, which has offended me, and other posters here, and the ones related to it (Im not talking about the dislike/like threads) send to other posters?


it sends the simple message that one should learn to take responsibility for the thread they create.

it is not for us to come in here and close this thread right now. if you really do not like the course this thread is taking, you should, whether you like it or not, back off and stop posting. it will die within the day. but ofcourse, you expect someone else to fix the issue which is asking someone else to close this thread and every other thread that personally bothers you.

Which i don't quite understand as you yoruself said things can't bother you if you don't let them. If you have a problem with those threads, by your definition, don't go into them. They have nothing to do with you. They dont even talk about you. we're all in there having our own bit of fun.

So no. this thread isn't getting closed. Someone quite important to me has been accused of stalking someone, barely 20. i take this shit very seriously. over the last couple of years, we've sat here and indirectly warned you about this shit. some of us even got shit from others for what gave us the right to say what a person does here or doesn't .. we're not people's parents .. yet not only did we sit here and do our due deligence, we even went to IM to tell you personally and a couple of other people to you know .. show an extra ounce of responsibility. Those things fell on deaf ears. Today, i got someone close to me, who has a much higher credibility than you would of stalking. well .. you reap what you sow. Today, i give him the opportunity to defend himself and for you to prove it. and for that i refuse to close this thread.

Advice? You don't want people stalking you? You don't want the wrong kind of people looking at pictures of you? You want us to create a much more safer environment to make women on our boards more comfortable, i prefer someone like you takes that first step and maybe acts as responsible as the rest of the women here on this board. Hell, even right now, you're fueling creepy guys on this board that others are having some major issues with (and we all know who we're talking about). Till then, you can continue to keep crying wolf anytime you fall so far into your lies and justifications that you start accusing people of doing one thing or the other. I'm not buying any of it. I'm still goign to keep an eye out for creepy stalkers and stop them from doing any harm but really, i have little sympathy for those who are asking for it.


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I'll take a tyre iron to whoever locks this piece of Gold.

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and seriously, if there is anyone on this site who should be sitting here feeling utterly offended, its eagle.

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