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Barrabás
llegó a la casa vía marítima
Joined: Sun Aug 05, 2007 4:53 pm Posts: 6212 Location: la gran casa de la esquina
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Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
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Algren
now we know
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 9:31 pm Posts: 67514
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Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Barrabás wrote: sheltered tin foil hat vision That's our Groucho!
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Mon Feb 19, 2018 9:00 am |
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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 20637 Location: West Chester, Pennsylvania
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Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
So I went on a date tonight. I wasn’t into her. We talked for an hour and a half and then I told her I was tired and we left. Do I need to let her know I don’t wanna see her again or can I just not text her again?
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Fri Jul 31, 2020 9:04 pm |
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Thegun
On autopilot for the summer
Joined: Thu Oct 21, 2004 10:14 pm Posts: 21739 Location: Walking around somewhere
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Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Aren't you like 20 now?
I can't even imagine what dating is like during the pandemic.
My last date was in, I want to say early March. Still talk to her though once in a while to see how she's doing during all of this. But that's about it. If anything I say it's good practice and will definitely give you some better inner strength and morals down the road. Won't say it gets any easier, especially if you have to break up with someone you at one point cared about in person in the future.
_________________Chippy wrote: As always, fuck Thegun. Chippy wrote: I want to live vicariously through you, Thegun!
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Fri Jul 31, 2020 11:03 pm |
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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 20637 Location: West Chester, Pennsylvania
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Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Im 22.
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Fri Jul 31, 2020 11:19 pm |
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Jack Sparrow
KJ's Leading Idiot
Joined: Thu Dec 31, 2009 8:15 pm Posts: 36926
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Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Good times.
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Sat Aug 01, 2020 12:14 am |
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stuffp
Keeping it Light
Joined: Wed Apr 08, 2015 8:06 am Posts: 11332 Location: Bright Falls
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Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
zwackerm wrote: So I went on a date tonight. I wasn’t into her. We talked for an hour and a half and then I told her I was tired and we left. Do I need to let her know I don’t wanna see her again or can I just not text her again? If it's just a date and you don't know/ hardly any chance you will run into this person again, you could pretty much just go silent. Like if she had a good time let her make the next move. However right after the date you could send a bit of a general text like, thanks for hanging out or something (kind of like the thing what Chandler does in, "i"ll call you", but I'd definitely not do that if you don't mean it), not sure the exact words you'd want to use, hey, you could maybe just communicate in a nice bible verse or something, but a basic after text I thought was always fine and then I'd just not contact her anymore if I didn't feel like seeing her again.
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Sun Aug 02, 2020 9:24 pm |
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Thegun
On autopilot for the summer
Joined: Thu Oct 21, 2004 10:14 pm Posts: 21739 Location: Walking around somewhere
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Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
lol, don't go silent. You wouldn't like that if the role was reversed. Karma is a thing!
Unless you really embarrassed yourself, there's no reason you can't say thanks for getting together and leave it at that, If she wants to get together again, just be honest. Don't be a Ghostwerm
_________________Chippy wrote: As always, fuck Thegun. Chippy wrote: I want to live vicariously through you, Thegun!
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Sun Aug 02, 2020 9:37 pm |
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lilmac
Veteran
Joined: Wed May 25, 2005 12:07 am Posts: 3170
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Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
I’m rooting for you zwackwerm!
_________________ I believe in God as I believe that the sun has risen: not only because I see it, but because by it I see everything else.
I was blind, but now I see.
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Mon Aug 03, 2020 10:17 pm |
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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 20637 Location: West Chester, Pennsylvania
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Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
She messaged me the day after, wanting to continue our conversation. I responded with something nice but short, I hope it was nice enough.
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Mon Aug 03, 2020 10:41 pm |
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Thegun
On autopilot for the summer
Joined: Thu Oct 21, 2004 10:14 pm Posts: 21739 Location: Walking around somewhere
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Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Share what you texted
_________________Chippy wrote: As always, fuck Thegun. Chippy wrote: I want to live vicariously through you, Thegun!
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Tue Aug 04, 2020 4:07 pm |
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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 20637 Location: West Chester, Pennsylvania
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Re: Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)
Thegun wrote: Share what you texted We talked about these videos she liked on Christianity, and she sent me a paragraph and a link to them. I was like “thanks a lot I’ll definitely take a look at them”
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