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FILMO
The Original
Joined: Sat Oct 23, 2004 10:19 am Posts: 9808 Location: Suisse
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 How do you handle insults?
Just curious.
And I am talking about the real "hurting" stuff.
I just watch the other person let the person talk and say nothing. Then I say calm what this shit is about and if the person keeps comming I go and the person never sees or does hear from me again. And I stick to it. No matter what.
Internet is different. Here I really dont give a shit.
What do you do?
(for me this is another real life situation thread discussed @WOKJ)
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Tue Jan 03, 2017 1:51 pm |
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Rev
Romosexual!
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 3:06 am Posts: 32579 Location: the last free city
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
We need specifics. What was the insult said?
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Tue Jan 03, 2017 1:55 pm |
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Flava'd vs The World
The Kramer
Joined: Sat Oct 23, 2004 11:36 am Posts: 25191 Location: Classified
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
Comedy. Always reflect it back.
Or I shoot them with a pistol if my honor demands it.
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Tue Jan 03, 2017 2:01 pm |
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Chippy
KJ's Leading Pundit
Joined: Tue Oct 12, 2004 4:45 pm Posts: 63026 Location: Tonight... YOU!
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
I honestly don't remember the last time I was insulted in person, and in a serious manner.
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Tue Jan 03, 2017 2:05 pm |
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Dr. Lecter
You must have big rats
Joined: Sat Oct 16, 2004 4:28 pm Posts: 92093 Location: Bonn, Germany
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
Chippy wrote: I honestly don't remember the last time I was insulted in person, and in a serious manner. Same here. Also, I am not sure any insults can actually truly hurt me. As to the my answer here: it really, really depends on who said it and what was said.
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Tue Jan 03, 2017 3:41 pm |
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FILMO
The Original
Joined: Sat Oct 23, 2004 10:19 am Posts: 9808 Location: Suisse
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
Rev wrote: We need specifics. What was the insult said? I was not only the insult it was more the whole situation. I volunteered from time to time for a project to help foreign people with study work. After my jaw surgery I was severly handicapped with eating. So they made some food and I tried to eat it but back then I wasnt able to eat it already.(today I maybe should not have tried to eat it but I was in a "try everything so you can eat as fast as normal again" mindset you know....practice practice practice. So then came an absolute insulting comment in their language towards my handicap(at that time). I didnt understand it but I knew by the reaction of some of the people that it was ultra rude. Dude next to me ( I had some talk with him before about his journeys he made ) got extremely angry at the insulting person. And he was also more introverted guy and cool in my eyes. Insulting person keeps pushing with comments and some of the idiots join the person. So if the person would have stopped after the first shoot I would have said "ok fuck it I take it" But the facts that I -helped those people already a lot before my surgery -came back to help -treated them always respectful even stuff happend I found strange -and the fact I didnt do really something wrong as far I see it. -and the persons keept pushing made me go.
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Tue Jan 03, 2017 4:13 pm |
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Dr. Lecter
You must have big rats
Joined: Sat Oct 16, 2004 4:28 pm Posts: 92093 Location: Bonn, Germany
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
I'd probably go too, but I'd want to know from the person why he/she not only made that comment in the first place, but after being called out on it, still kept pushing it. I mean, why? Only because they thought it's amusing...?
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Tue Jan 03, 2017 4:20 pm |
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FILMO
The Original
Joined: Sat Oct 23, 2004 10:19 am Posts: 9808 Location: Suisse
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
Dr. Lecter wrote: I'd probably go too, but I'd want to know from the person why he/she not only made that comment in the first place, but after being called out on it, still kept pushing it. I mean, why? Only because they thought it's amusing...? yeah forgot to ad that when the first "wave" was over I calmly asked what this was about. But as answer only some more stupid laughter and pushing. So yeah for me it was "not funny, too personal, overdone it, fuck you" time.
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Tue Jan 03, 2017 4:27 pm |
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Rev
Romosexual!
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 3:06 am Posts: 32579 Location: the last free city
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
Dr. Lecter wrote: Chippy wrote: I honestly don't remember the last time I was insulted in person, and in a serious manner. Same here. Also, I am not sure any insults can actually truly hurt me. Yah same here
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Tue Jan 03, 2017 5:14 pm |
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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 21467 Location: West Chester, Pennsylvania
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
I'm so used to my twin brother insulting me, doesn't phase me anymore.
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Tue Jan 03, 2017 6:07 pm |
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Rev
Romosexual!
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 3:06 am Posts: 32579 Location: the last free city
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
FILMO wrote: Rev wrote: We need specifics. What was the insult said? I was not only the insult it was more the whole situation. I volunteered from time to time for a project to help foreign people with study work. After my jaw surgery I was severly handicapped with eating. So they made some food and I tried to eat it but back then I wasnt able to eat it already.(today I maybe should not have tried to eat it but I was in a "try everything so you can eat as fast as normal again" mindset you know....practice practice practice. So then came an absolute insulting comment in their language towards my handicap(at that time). I didnt understand it but I knew by the reaction of some of the people that it was ultra rude. Dude next to me ( I had some talk with him before about his journeys he made ) got extremely angry at the insulting person. And he was also more introverted guy and cool in my eyes. Insulting person keeps pushing with comments and some of the idiots join the person. So if the person would have stopped after the first shoot I would have said "ok fuck it I take it" But the facts that I -helped those people already a lot before my surgery -came back to help -treated them always respectful even stuff happend I found strange -and the fact I didnt do really something wrong as far I see it. -and the persons keept pushing made me go. Some people are just assholes no matter what.
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Tue Jan 03, 2017 6:34 pm |
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Thegun
On autopilot for the summer
Joined: Thu Oct 21, 2004 10:14 pm Posts: 21856 Location: Walking around somewhere
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
im not sure if I've ever been insulted in real life, if I have I must have taken it fine.
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Dr. Lecter
You must have big rats
Joined: Sat Oct 16, 2004 4:28 pm Posts: 92093 Location: Bonn, Germany
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
Let me tell you instead how I handle people who are mad at me (if I think there is no reason for them to be). As they get angrier and start shouting I simply look at them and smile. Which drives them insane. Always works.
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Tue Jan 03, 2017 7:43 pm |
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Jiffy
Forum General
Joined: Sat Dec 18, 2004 2:27 pm Posts: 6152 Location: New York
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
Silence.
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Algren
now we know
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 9:31 pm Posts: 68230 Location: Seattle, WA
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 Re: How do you handle insults?
Bunch of hard-asses here. Nothing affects anybody. Yeah, sure, sure.
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